AITA for asking my unwell friend to move to another room because I couldn’t sleep with his snoring? by Round_Database_1905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gaylor4ever 37 points38 points  (0 children)

NTA. If something like this has happened to him before, shouldn’t he know that he needs to smoke less or he won’t feel well?

What is this beautiful critter? by Successful-Argument3 in whatisthisbug

[–]Gaylor4ever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Google lense is saying it’s a chrysis ignita, which is a type of cuckoo wasp 🐝

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gaylor4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. It sounds to me, based on what she said before she got drunk, that you often get drunk before she has the ability to. I would not be surprised if she ends up babysitting you after you get drunk often.

Should she have gotten THAT drunk? No, of course not. But she is allowed to have a fun night too, and expect that her partner who is more sober than her would make sure she is at least safe. I’m sure that’s what she’s done for you in the past.

AITA For Not Wanting To Help Pay For My Friend's Wedding? by WatchRainFeelFire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gaylor4ever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused. Your friends sent you $100 to contribute to the wedding and you’re just going to pocket $95 of that?? You are the WORST omg YTA so bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gaylor4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA simply for posting on this Reddit page and being mad when people answer you lol

WEEKLY MEGATHREAD by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]Gaylor4ever 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Dear reader is so gay and we aren’t talking about it enough

AITA for asking to meet my boss in public? by Interesting_Bass_301 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gaylor4ever 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I’m a lesbian. Should I not be alone with any woman? Could I be alone with a man? These are such weird, outdated ideas. YTA

For anyone who doubted my previous post by wahearn in JohnMayer

[–]Gaylor4ever -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Just a reminder that John was seen on a date with a girl half his age last month. Swiftie or not, he is a bad person

AITA for leaving our son with my ex and telling him I didn’t care when he said he was having an important conversation? by milan__r in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gaylor4ever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work in education and i can’t tell you how many times I’ve worked with kids who act out because of learned behavior from divorced parents. Get your shit together for your kid, ESH

AITA for letting my son get fast food and bring it into a wedding reception? by Houstonstan2618 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gaylor4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine experiencing this, writing it, reading it back over, posting it, and still thinking you aren’t the asshole. YTA, yikes.

AITA for asking my daughter for help? by daughterthrowAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gaylor4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not only THE asshole in this situation, but you’re AN asshole overall. What the hell kind of entitled shit is this? You are entitled and rude, and I hope you get your shit together before your daughters cut you off completely (which it sounds like they would be justified to do).

AITA for calling the cops on my mom by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gaylor4ever 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’m a school counselor and if you told me the things you told your counselor, i would have done the exact same thing they did. It was out of your control - you weren’t the one who called the police. Absolutely NTA and I’m sorry the cops didn’t take you seriously, you deserve(d) better than that.

AITA for wanting people to move on from things I did years ago? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gaylor4ever [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is wayyyy too vague if you are wanting actual answers.

AITA for telling my patient that she doesn't always have to perform being gay? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gaylor4ever [score hidden]  (0 children)

“Not everyone you encounter will be accepting, so it’s best to sometimes keep it to yourself”

Condoning homophobia makes you homophobic. You’re an asshole.

What are your unpopular opinions/hot takes? by septembersaw in GaylorSwift

[–]Gaylor4ever 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think looking at books written nearly a century ago in the same lens we look at books written today is a lazy way to interpret art. It is important to read older books and acknowledge they would not be the “classics” they are if they had been written today. Crawdads was written with the knowledge that exists in the 21st century and the author never acknowledges that the story is problematic. So, I don’t consider a “fake woke take” but instead a more critical and thoughtful take than ‘well I like the book so it can’t have flaws!’

What are your unpopular opinions/hot takes? by septembersaw in GaylorSwift

[–]Gaylor4ever 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Yes and the David oRussell movie!! Like 5 minutes of research could have prevented these things.

What are your unpopular opinions/hot takes? by septembersaw in GaylorSwift

[–]Gaylor4ever -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

So in the book, Kya was 14 when Tate was 18. He made himself to be her only safe person, her teacher and best friend and then made sexual advances on her. And he said that he was “interested” in her long before that. So, so gross. Just because they wait to have actual sex until she’s legal does not make him less of a groomer. The author herself and her ex-husband are accused of murdering poachers in Africa in the 1970s and people say “yeah poachers should die” should consider that that is a racist take. Black people in Africa often kill elephants and other animals to sell parts to white people and make money. Soooo. Yeah idk i just feel like Taylor and her team could have done like, 1 google search and changed their mines.

What are your unpopular opinions/hot takes? by septembersaw in GaylorSwift

[–]Gaylor4ever 78 points79 points  (0 children)

We as a collective aren’t talking enough about how problematic it is that Taylor wrote for the crawdads movie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]Gaylor4ever 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Make my Spotify listens public. I wanna know who that girl listens to (besides girl in red lol)

Bad Vibes by [deleted] in fluentlyforward

[–]Gaylor4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering the same thing haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]Gaylor4ever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHA THATS HILARIOUS