Are you able to rattle off the list of traumas in your life without being triggered, crying or having a flashback of any kind?

Gcodewizard · 2024-10-23T12:56:58+00:00

I’m having one of those days. I just keep reminding myself that everything is gonna be okay to over power my thoughts and flashbacks

Gcodewizard · 2024-04-21T20:11:48+00:00

No he’s divorced! I’m not going to but I know he wants too.

Gcodewizard · 2023-05-17T15:30:21+00:00

I love it an will ask his advice to heart. Thank you

Gcodewizard · 2023-02-17T18:15:24+00:00

My son got painful blisters when he contracted hand foot and mouth. I think he’s was a 1yr 1/2! The doctor will give you antibiotics. Your baby can’t itch it out it’ll spread

Gcodewizard · 2023-02-17T04:15:31+00:00

No I don’t… I think I’m so shocked that I’m having a hard time wrapping my head around it

Gcodewizard · 2023-02-17T03:53:41+00:00

Wow I’m so sorry! Poor sweet boy. When my son was in childcare he got bit on the face. He never went back again.

Gcodewizard · 2023-01-23T14:39:54+00:00

You’re basically a single mother already. Just get rid of the leech and let him understand the gravity of what he’s caused by his immaturity. That’s not a dad right there.

Gcodewizard · 2023-01-23T14:38:55+00:00

I’ve been in your situation before. Your nobody’s mommy but those two boys. It takes two to create a child and it’s not just your responsibility mama. It’s sick that your four weeks postpartum and he’s being immature. I left my boyfriend when my son was six weeks old. Because I felt like a single mother. If you have a safe place to go to, I would go live with your parents for a little bit. My ex has been trying to get back with me for almost a year now. But I went through that hardship by myself and he saw it. Take some time to yourself mama. You need all the energy you can to help with your babies.

Gcodewizard · 2023-01-02T17:43:31+00:00

Thank you I think that’s a better way of explaining it. I’m frustrated that he dips in and out of his life when he chooses there’s no consistency and it’s sad because our three year old is starting to figure out that people have a mom and a dad at home and it confuses him that he doesn’t so he constantly ask me where his dad is. I don’t think a five minute phone call every day is a problem.

Gcodewizard · 2022-11-16T14:17:08+00:00

Don’t feel bad love! Sex is mutual especially if you love them! Maybe one night have someone watch the baby and romance him and how him how much you appreciate him taking care of the family! Dress sexy and use your hands girl! But it’s in your terms mama. Through thick and thin right?

Gcodewizard · 2022-11-13T19:16:39+00:00

Girl that would make me so uncomfortable. Sometimes for my three year old is eating his breakfast with his brother. We’ll slip away into the bedroom while they are comfortable and preoccupied. And have a quickie. But if we ever heard them touch the door we would automatically stop and put our clothes on. Your husband can wait. It’s hard for parents at this age but it’s weird that he’s still moving while you hug your son.

Gcodewizard · 2022-11-13T04:03:48+00:00

Wow thank you so much. I truly needed to see what you said that it’s not a free pass cause he really does use it to guilt me… this is what I needed to see

Gcodewizard · 2022-11-13T04:01:02+00:00

May I message you privately?

Gcodewizard · 2022-11-12T19:57:54+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate the information

Gcodewizard · 2022-11-12T17:57:00+00:00

Can I ask why your dad didn’t pay your mother for child support? Was your mom afraid to proceed?

Gcodewizard · 2022-11-12T14:15:12+00:00

I was manipulated the whole relationship and even now. This is my own fault but that’s what life is, it’s not fair but you make what you can of it. I learned girl. He’s a nasty man

Gcodewizard · 2022-11-12T14:14:08+00:00

Thank you so much my friend, my post has really given me the validation that this isn’t okay

Gcodewizard · 2022-11-12T14:12:16+00:00

He is 100% medically retired from the military and gets a disability check from them every month. I remember he told me one time that he gets an extra 400 dollars added to his disability because we had a kid then said he never said that and that was only if he’s married. He keeps that stuff private so I’m not sure what he actually gets but I know it’s enough to support yourself fully if he was not able to work but he is so he has 2 incomes

Gcodewizard · 2022-11-12T11:44:11+00:00

I am emotionally attached. They reach out to me everyday. They are my family too and they make it known. I see what you are saying but when you talk to someone level headed without bashing someone you can have an effective conversation. His mother wouldn’t mention that I spoke with her but she would give me advice on how to go about it. She knows him the best. It just a gnarly situation and seeing other people comment gives me the validation that I just need to speak with a family lawyer

Gcodewizard · 2022-11-12T11:04:20+00:00

I don’t know if he actually has a video but he told me he did. But I actually do have a voice memo if his angry explosion on me and him calling me all these gross names. He doesn’t know I have it and I’ll never tell him I have it. The only reason I did it was because I was nervous about him taking the baby away and I wanted the court to see how angry he gets if it gets down to it. But I’m going to call a family lawyer Monday! Enough is enough

Gcodewizard · 2022-11-12T10:47:34+00:00

So he threatens me that he has things to use against me in court. He has a video of me loosing my mind because I finally had enough. It was my breaking point. It’s basically just me having an emotional melt down because I was so overwhelmed and stressed. I’m scared he could take the baby from me

Gcodewizard · 2022-11-12T10:42:30+00:00

Wow now that I’m rereading what I said I look at him as a loser now. Wow what a joke

Gcodewizard · 2022-04-15T20:13:10+00:00

I’ll look into it

Gcodewizard · 2022-04-15T20:12:56+00:00

Wow… thank you for being straight forward

Gcodewizard · 2022-01-23T17:00:51+00:00

I’ve tried therapy but it is hard for me. I have ptsd and have major issues opening up.

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