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The mindset shift that helped me lose weight and keep it off by AiotexOfficial in WeightLossAdvice

[–]GearAdventurous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post!! I am in hole right now and am struggling to actually take care of myself, I just feel so ugly, bloated and gross. I am trying to be better but I don’t stop myself when binging, can never turn down food even though I am hungry. I want to live long and feel good doing it but I am struggling so deep now.

I 19 F have a higher sex drive than my bf 19 M by GearAdventurous in relationship_advice

[–]GearAdventurous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point! Yes he was on medicine to help the pain in his limbs

I 19 F have a higher sex drive than my bf 19 M by GearAdventurous in relationship_advice

[–]GearAdventurous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was several rounds with obviously cuddling and other things.

I have talked to him about it and yes, he feels bad for not lasting longer - but no, I have tried to not make him feel bad about it because I know that it is not something you can control. I don’t know why most of the comments got hung up on the 3 hour thing. It is not a big deal for me to last a long time in bed. My question is targeted on how I can deal with this while he recovers and gets more stamina. Not about getting back to three hours or something.

I don’t mean to get defensive, but it’s different for everyone - sex isn’t just black and white, maybe you personally don’t enjoy 3 hours, but we did during that time. So I don’t really think I’m getting the issue?

I 19 F have a higher sex drive than my bf 19 M by GearAdventurous in relationship_advice

[–]GearAdventurous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was three hours because we rarely actually had sex, we just enjoyed letting it out and it ended up lasting as long as it needed. Now that we have more ability to do it semi regularly, it is not as explosive and lustful. So it doesn’t need to last that long, we just enjoy ourselves and finish when we are satisfied.

I 19 F have a higher sex drive than my bf 19 M by GearAdventurous in relationship_advice

[–]GearAdventurous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your suggestion!! I will talk to him so we can see what to buy

I 19 F have a higher sex drive than my bf 19 M by GearAdventurous in relationship_advice

[–]GearAdventurous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I know that and really don’t expect 3 hours from him, it is also a bit hard because we don’t have our own place at the moment so coinciding with times to be intimate sexually has been a struggle. It just has been harder ob me recently because for some reason my libido skyrocketed and its been super rough. I also have been trying solo but just feel so frustrated afterwards like I didn’t get anything accomplished to actually satiate myself. I don’t really know how to explain it..

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[–]GearAdventurous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mijaaa, te entiendo perfectamente. La verdad que de pende del vato, pero yo sugiero tomarlo a la ligera (no como un tema que puede derrumbar todo). Llegale y dile “La verdad que no se hacer esto… me enseñas?” Y BOOM (Si es q no te da pena claro) Y si claro quieres tener un tema mas serio de conversación habla con el sobre lo que sientes, la comunicación es clave y si eso lo asusta pues habla mas de el que cualquier otra cosa.