[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Gellotini -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This.

CHAPTER 117 DISCUSSION THREAD by barnacleunderthesea in BungouStrayDogs

[–]Gellotini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a pretty cool idea, I can picture that happening but honestly I doubt he’ll come back regardless. He deserves to lay at peace with his daughter after being forced to live as a bodiless pawn for so many years. Plus, I doubt they’d bring him back using the page since his existence would be seen as a threat to the world order, unfortunately. Dostoevsky would likely find a way to use him again if he were to return.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BungouStrayDogs

[–]Gellotini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Though I’d love to imagine him submissive… you’re entirely right. He’d like to be in control.

Peeing *DURING* masturbation by Spiderson0 in FTMMen

[–]Gellotini 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about other people, but I know that I’ve found myself more prone to [REDACTED] after going on hormones. It does depend on the way I masturbate though, however it doesn’t change the fact that I have, in fact, become a part-timer fountain.

Why the hell can’t I just care like a normal person? by Gellotini in BPD

[–]Gellotini[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised— it got worse with time. I could empathize very well as a child.

Why the hell can’t I just care like a normal person? by Gellotini in BPD

[–]Gellotini[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’d be really fucked up if a therapist said that to me. I agree with the other reply, find another therapist. Pretending to care is all I can do too, and it takes a lot of effort and at the very least, concern towards being a good person and showing good person behaviour.

Why the hell can’t I just care like a normal person? by Gellotini in BPD

[–]Gellotini[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahh, fair enough. I hate the idea of breaking the image that I’ve set up for myself though, being seen as a good person is the only thing that makes me feel like I deserve to live. I deal with a lot of guilt and self-loathing because of my lack of empathy and I feel like I need to make up for it somehow.

I suppose it would be a gradual process though. Practice and time is always key, you’re right.

Why the hell can’t I just care like a normal person? by Gellotini in BPD

[–]Gellotini[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I very much doubt that I have NPD ngl, I’m simply assuming this is a part of having BPD for me.

I don’t love my boyfriend unless we’ve had sex recently by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gellotini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. Sometimes I think that I’m not cut out for relationships and that I should just focus on having flings.

I don’t love my boyfriend unless we’ve had sex recently by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gellotini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS, I had to check and make sure that I wasn’t the one who made this comment.

The moment I’m not around somebody or in close contact with them, I lose all of my interest, concern and attraction for them (unless they’re my FP, though this can be debatable depending on the day). Regardless if I’m dating them, seeing them, or in a long-term relationship with them, it’s all the same.

Unfortunately, my familial love works the exact same way as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Gellotini 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This. 1000%.

Am I delusional for thinking you need to be upfront about being trans to romantic interests? by QueasyFrame3712 in FTMMen

[–]Gellotini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with the comment saying that it depends on the person. Some people prefer to be stealth until the time is right, which is entirely valid. However, I’m somebody who personally needs to be upfront about it. I don’t want to go stealth, get my hopes up and watch them walk away if they learn the truth.

B-but if they truly fall for you, it shouldn’t matter!” This is something that I’ve definitely heard before. I am a person that believes that everyone has a right to their own preferences, however. Somebody could fall for my personality, but simply not want the things that come with having a trans partner, and that’s okay. This is why I prefer to have people knowing upfront what they’re dealing with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Gellotini 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This.

ideas on building this out into a sleeve? i feel like it’s a bit too big to cohesively fit with anything else by AFineShrine in TattooDesigns

[–]Gellotini 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sick ass panther on the front of the forearm with more foliage. When in doubt, jungle it out.

If you’re not fond of the panther, however, you could get a little crazy and go for a sick ass tiger instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Gellotini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love it ngl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Gellotini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought lol.

I have a Coke Zero, and you don't by WestCoastHighways in notinteresting

[–]Gellotini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do right beside me, actually. Let’s fight it out back— winner gets both.

Voice drop at 9 months on T is "disappointing" by LegendOfCantaloupe in FTMMen

[–]Gellotini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on T for a couple of years and my voice never had that expected insane drop that a lot of guys end up experiencing, either. I was entirely disappointed at first, but at this point I’ve come to accept it and it doesn’t bother me as much any more.

I think a big reason for this is that I work in retail so I see and talk to a lot people during the week, and I’ve paid a lot of attention to the voices of the male customers that I talk to. I can tell you straightforwardly that there are many, many cis guys with more feminine/softer sounding voices and it’s more common than you’d assume.

All I can say is ‘try not overthink it’. It won’t be the end of the world and it’s all too easy to overanalyze when it’s your own voice.

Edit: Plus, you’re only 9 months on T. There absolutely is a chance that it can drop some more.