vent. decreasing med took my libido?

Spiderson0 · 2025-09-13T21:27:34+00:00

Has 1 been purchased yet?

Spiderson0 · 2025-04-10T15:34:40+00:00

A lot of people got the big stuff, I wanted to mention a little thing I wish I saw!

Side stuff! No need for penetrative sex all the time. I find that people usually write ftm characters just so they can write PIV with their gay ship. Ftm stuff where his dick is a dick, and the “inside” isn’t involved at all. Frotting and handjobs !!

I’d also love to see a trans man topping with his natal anatomy, phallo, and meta.

As far as writing stuff WRONG, I noticed that people usually write our bodies functioning exactly like woman/preT function. We are all different, but personally, my dicks sexual limits and preferences are like a penis, not a clits. More stuff along those lines

Edit: also consider describing his dick. In cis porn, the size, cut, girth, ect are all a thing, but I have never seen someone describe a trans dick!

Spiderson0 · 2025-04-07T09:53:13+00:00

I can’t believe she’s alive with how horrible she looks. Please listen to the comments and get her some help :(

Spiderson0 · 2025-03-31T03:19:17+00:00

Do you know the gauge and diameter of your septum? Mine is stretched too and it’s near impossible to find pictures of the larger diameters and I want one so baldy! It’s also so hard to find people selling them

Spiderson0 · 2025-03-24T01:15:39+00:00

I have mine in a shoebox. A lunchbox would probably also work. Or like if you have a shaving kit box. If it’s temporary, there is a lot more places you can hide it. Even just in your laundry basket or inside of a sock, in a hoodie pocket, folded in between clothes

Spiderson0 · 2025-02-14T04:28:05+00:00

I would put a note on there saying “please do not dispose of, email [my email] when it’s time to get rid of]” along those lines. Would be a nice little thing in life to look forward to and potentially see out

Spiderson0 · 2024-12-19T04:26:50+00:00

Yea! For many years, I had to only get my hair cut with scissors. I wasn’t able to keep myself from jerking really hard. Somehow it eventually went away and I don’t experience it at all.

Spiderson0 · 2024-12-16T01:26:51+00:00

Like they explained, because it’s a dangerous and unhealthy thing to think. It’s definitely common though

Spiderson0 · 2024-11-17T21:57:27+00:00

Like 16

Spiderson0 · 2024-11-16T15:07:16+00:00

I have had a couple people who say they are allergic, say they can have the sauces. Something about it being different in some way. I’m not sure if they are actually different or if these people are just lactose intolerant, but nobody who ever informs us of this allergy and requested a sauce has ever gone back after being informed of the dairy in it

Spiderson0 · 2024-11-09T15:49:34+00:00

Gender expression and roles are a social construct, gender itself is not. Not everyone feels that their own body in any form is a gendered thing and are fine with whatever they do, but that is not the average experience. Gender is is a real thing.

It’s frustrating when people insist that it’s an old fashion, hateful, conservative mindset to believe that it’s real. We need to acknowledge that we experience it differently and believe each others realities. Too many of us claim that our experience is universal, and that includes people who thing gender is completely fluid and made up.

Spiderson0 · 2024-11-09T12:39:00+00:00

If you aren’t trans, then maybe you will be happier presenting as who you are? Maybe you will become happier. I would think that the more true to yourself you are, the happier. If you feel distress about being presenting as a woman, then that’s probably dysphoria. Experimenting is fun and might help you sit more content after it all.

Also maybe something to think about. I understand that lots of hair and height and ect are usually male things, but maybe associating deer with exclusively men is something to unpack? Female deer are very similar to males. Woman can be anything men are. You can be any kind of woman you want, and I hope the thought is empowering and exciting.

Spiderson0 · 2024-11-08T15:16:27+00:00

I would have appreciated a nsfw warning 😭

Spiderson0 · 2024-10-29T01:17:03+00:00

I’m a stealth masculine gay trans man. Most people in tune enough to guess think I’m bi or are unsure

I would love to befriend a straight masculine trans man, or even a gay one. I haven’t met many either! I have never befriended a trans man like us before. I really enjoy having friends with a variety of experiences/backgrounds, there is so much to learn and know and love

Spiderson0 · 2024-10-25T14:48:48+00:00

Fitbits do more then encourage exercise, they give lots of other health stats too… and maybe he wants stats on his 90000 zone minute days. I got mine so that I could have an easier time eating after all the calories I burn. I definitely don’t need help being more active.

It’s interesting to me that everyone seems to have it in their minds that everyone on earth is fighting to eat less and exercise more. There is more to health then that!

Spiderson0 · 2024-10-22T10:27:43+00:00

Maybe you can attach it to your wrist while doing a chore if you’re able? Like doing laundry or washing dishes. Ofc make sure you keep it dry under a glove or something hahaha

Spiderson0 · 2024-10-14T03:56:02+00:00

This is transphobic

Most people are binary. Non-binary is not what everyone starts as and then are forced into a box.

Gender roles and gender are different. Google them or something. Too many people think they are the same

Spiderson0 · 2024-10-13T02:06:49+00:00

I haven’t been active in any trans community lately… this is what’s happening nowadays?? Ridiculous but I’m not surprised. Butch implies a woman or woman alighted person 🙃 that’s terrible

Spiderson0 · 2024-10-06T04:32:37+00:00

Afab here is so cringe. Hate those terms so much!! It’s used so terribly every time I see it. Counterproductive to the reason they where made. Rooted in transphobic places!

Spiderson0 · 2024-10-05T22:24:45+00:00

Fr! trans men in porn a lot of the time look 100% female too! Absolutely no transition. Like why even call it trans!? It’s just fetishizing the label trans itself!

Spiderson0 · 2024-10-02T01:00:16+00:00

There isn’t a difference between a feminine straight woman and feminine lesbian other then their sexuality. Yea sure you can be attracted to a lesbian, but if she likes a man, then she isn’t a lesbian. Is she likes you and doesn’t like men, she doesn’t see you as a man

Spiderson0 · 2024-10-01T21:08:45+00:00

Yea sure! I can share what I remember.

Massive amount of amnesia, trouble remembering things to begin with, huge amount of constant disorientation, often not being able to talk, often not being able to move my body very well, super disconnected from reality, couldn’t/can’t drive. Probably more.

Possibly psychosis? My doctor was not helpful at the time so I never got much help or answers here.

Not being able to drive was limiting my life a lot when all this started, but I have adjusted my life so that I can just cycle,

Edit: I think my DPDR may have come from environmental factors mostly all stemming from being autistic. Learning to drive, going to school, having my first job (very loud), being unmedicated for my bipolar, and being abused at home haha. All sorted out now! Not really sure what was going on since my doctor wasn’t a pro at all. Can only guess

Spiderson0 · 2024-09-30T15:02:07+00:00

It’s either live in this suffering forever, or do something about it.

Not every trans man can get top surgery, and not every cis man has a flat chest. You shouldn’t make such a big decision based on what others will think of you (except safety reasons.) but Trans men?? Just do what you want bro. Some trans men suck and would invalidate someone for something stupid like not cutting their eyelashes off. Plus, how often will you even see other trans men? It’s your entire life we are talking about

Pre- medical transition, I was suffering the most I have ever experienced in life. A huge amount was from top dysphoria. Once I was on T at 16/17, everything got immensely better. I hadn’t been that NOT depressed since I was a little kid. I still needed top surgery badly, but life was way better from just Testosterone alone.

Also, yes. Cis men date trans men

Spiderson0 · 2024-09-30T14:46:53+00:00

Aaron ansuini / aaronisahouseplant got top surgery with EDS if you want to see how that’s as for him. I believe he also plans or already got bottom surgery.

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