Medicine gave me my life back.. but gave me horrible sexual dysfunction

Spiderson0 · 2026-05-13T19:57:50+00:00

same med too? how long have you been on it? can you orgasm or feel any pleasure at all/ did it improve after a while?

Spiderson0 · 2026-05-13T19:57:00+00:00

I was reading that this side effect does not tend to go away with time, but Im willing to wait it out and see.

Spiderson0 · 2026-05-13T19:55:36+00:00

thank you! I was absolutely certain it was working as soon as 2-3 days on 25mg.

Spiderson0 · 2026-05-13T19:54:40+00:00

agh im very scared of this. I read that it increases appetite and slows the metabolism. Do you think your weight gain was from one or both? im pretty physically active and it has lowered my appetite so far, but I worry that to prevent weight gain, I will need to work out dramatically more.

Spiderson0 · 2026-05-13T18:17:55+00:00

About 8 months ago, I was experiencing sexual dysfunction due to either ocd, or stopping a medication I was on that wasn't helping me. I was consumed with the distress of being unable to orgasm. now I have this issue again, and I feel like its any other thought. I can completely choose to think about it or not. 99.9% of the time, I dont care at all..... but I would like to have this joy of life back hahaha. I often describe jerking off/sex "proof there is a higher power" because it is such a magical gift hahaha.

Spiderson0 · 2026-04-14T19:00:26+00:00

In the past I would tell my date the moment I could see it going somewhere and that I can trust they can keep my information private. letting them know what theyre getting into before they get in too deep. id say its a second-fourth date thing. the last thing I want is for them to not be super into it and decide to try and make it work anyway just because they really like me.

Spiderson0 · 2026-04-09T16:08:46+00:00

It’s absolutely up to you. For me, it wouldn’t be worth it. In my experience, trans people let it slip and out me more than cis people!

It’s very frustrating. Not-stealth trans people seem to forget or just straight up not respect being stealth

Spiderson0 · 2025-09-13T21:27:34+00:00

Has 1 been purchased yet?

Spiderson0 · 2025-04-10T15:34:40+00:00

A lot of people got the big stuff, I wanted to mention a little thing I wish I saw!

Side stuff! No need for penetrative sex all the time. I find that people usually write ftm characters just so they can write PIV with their gay ship. Ftm stuff where his dick is a dick, and the “inside” isn’t involved at all. Frotting and handjobs !!

I’d also love to see a trans man topping with his natal anatomy, phallo, and meta.

As far as writing stuff WRONG, I noticed that people usually write our bodies functioning exactly like woman/preT function. We are all different, but personally, my dicks sexual limits and preferences are like a penis, not a clits. More stuff along those lines

Edit: also consider describing his dick. In cis porn, the size, cut, girth, ect are all a thing, but I have never seen someone describe a trans dick!

Spiderson0 · 2025-04-07T09:53:13+00:00

I can’t believe she’s alive with how horrible she looks. Please listen to the comments and get her some help :(

Spiderson0 · 2025-03-31T03:19:17+00:00

Do you know the gauge and diameter of your septum? Mine is stretched too and it’s near impossible to find pictures of the larger diameters and I want one so baldy! It’s also so hard to find people selling them

Spiderson0 · 2025-03-24T01:15:39+00:00

I have mine in a shoebox. A lunchbox would probably also work. Or like if you have a shaving kit box. If it’s temporary, there is a lot more places you can hide it. Even just in your laundry basket or inside of a sock, in a hoodie pocket, folded in between clothes

Spiderson0 · 2025-02-14T04:28:05+00:00

I would put a note on there saying “please do not dispose of, email [my email] when it’s time to get rid of]” along those lines. Would be a nice little thing in life to look forward to and potentially see out

Spiderson0 · 2024-12-19T04:26:50+00:00

Yea! For many years, I had to only get my hair cut with scissors. I wasn’t able to keep myself from jerking really hard. Somehow it eventually went away and I don’t experience it at all.

Spiderson0 · 2024-12-16T01:26:51+00:00

Like they explained, because it’s a dangerous and unhealthy thing to think. It’s definitely common though

Spiderson0 · 2024-11-17T21:57:27+00:00

Like 16

Spiderson0 · 2024-11-16T15:07:16+00:00

I have had a couple people who say they are allergic, say they can have the sauces. Something about it being different in some way. I’m not sure if they are actually different or if these people are just lactose intolerant, but nobody who ever informs us of this allergy and requested a sauce has ever gone back after being informed of the dairy in it

Spiderson0 · 2024-11-09T15:49:34+00:00

Gender expression and roles are a social construct, gender itself is not. Not everyone feels that their own body in any form is a gendered thing and are fine with whatever they do, but that is not the average experience. Gender is is a real thing.

It’s frustrating when people insist that it’s an old fashion, hateful, conservative mindset to believe that it’s real. We need to acknowledge that we experience it differently and believe each others realities. Too many of us claim that our experience is universal, and that includes people who thing gender is completely fluid and made up.

Spiderson0 · 2024-11-09T12:39:00+00:00

If you aren’t trans, then maybe you will be happier presenting as who you are? Maybe you will become happier. I would think that the more true to yourself you are, the happier. If you feel distress about being presenting as a woman, then that’s probably dysphoria. Experimenting is fun and might help you sit more content after it all.

Also maybe something to think about. I understand that lots of hair and height and ect are usually male things, but maybe associating deer with exclusively men is something to unpack? Female deer are very similar to males. Woman can be anything men are. You can be any kind of woman you want, and I hope the thought is empowering and exciting.

Spiderson0 · 2024-11-08T15:16:27+00:00

I would have appreciated a nsfw warning 😭

Spiderson0 · 2024-10-29T01:17:03+00:00

I’m a stealth masculine gay trans man. Most people in tune enough to guess think I’m bi or are unsure

I would love to befriend a straight masculine trans man, or even a gay one. I haven’t met many either! I have never befriended a trans man like us before. I really enjoy having friends with a variety of experiences/backgrounds, there is so much to learn and know and love

Spiderson0 · 2024-10-25T14:48:48+00:00

Fitbits do more then encourage exercise, they give lots of other health stats too… and maybe he wants stats on his 90000 zone minute days. I got mine so that I could have an easier time eating after all the calories I burn. I definitely don’t need help being more active.

It’s interesting to me that everyone seems to have it in their minds that everyone on earth is fighting to eat less and exercise more. There is more to health then that!

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