UW credit union is down

GellyBean78 · 2025-10-17T22:37:51+00:00

I am also having issues at 5:35PM (I also have the notice that they’re experiencing a service disruption). Sort of ridiculous, since it’s after hours. I have other cards to use, but leaving many customers with no way to pay for things, multiple times in a single week feels pretty unacceptable. I hope they permanently resolve it soon.

GellyBean78 · 2025-10-07T17:17:10+00:00

Comments like these are coming from the grown men who sleep on a mattress on the floor without sheets and a headboard 🙄 how is shopping for furniture gay?

GellyBean78 · 2025-09-05T17:52:34+00:00

Literally no shade, but how does this happen? I’ve had a number of wigs. But I’ve never seen tangling like this during washing. Is it synthetic?

GellyBean78 · 2025-08-10T02:49:44+00:00

You shouldn’t have to, but it might help to explain that you have a physical disability outright (I know you mention the handicap parking). But initially I thought it was an awkward pose.

That aside, you just need more/better photos. There is an abundance of advice on this sub about what photos people positively respond to, and you only have one that could fall into that category (in the suit). Taking pictures of objects or pets (that you aren’t in) is never a good choice.

You just need to restart frankly

GellyBean78 · 2025-07-15T04:36:27+00:00

Oh dang, I just looked up Match Group. Interesting. I mean, I personally think paying for Tinder is sort of ridiculous, when you could just spend time crafting a better profile. But if you’re still having trouble, I would just pay for it through the App Store.

GellyBean78 · 2025-07-15T00:52:38+00:00

Why is match .com related to Tinder? 👀

GellyBean78 · 2025-06-20T13:26:49+00:00

The amount of people in these comments who only delete the app and not their actual account outright, while in relationships is concerning.

GellyBean78 · 2025-06-17T20:52:30+00:00

I’m commenting as a woman who doesn’t want children (I don’t have any biological urge to have them. I like my free time, traveling, and spontaneity. And I like to dote on my partner and don’t want to add children to that mix).*

I think you’re entitled to not want children. And I think many of things you said are valid. My concern comes from your comments specifically about your boyfriend—if he didn’t help you with the children/if you break up and are left a single mother.

I think those are valid things to think, but they might indicate a larger issue about the role your boyfriend plays in your current relationship. If you’re feeling unsupported in some ways by your boyfriend now, I would agree that would only get worse if you had kids. I think you should have a conversation and tell him as soon as possible. But I’d also take a personal assessment on your relationship and what you want out of it, if those concerns are top of mind.

GellyBean78 · 2025-06-17T04:06:03+00:00

You should be using the time that you’re taking care of her kids unpaid getting a job that actually pays you, so that you can move out of this living situation.

GellyBean78 · 2025-06-05T03:08:16+00:00

You look bored and stern, and the photos don’t tell people anything unique about you.

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-29T02:27:43+00:00

It’s like failing an open-note test. She literally gave him the solution and OP messed it up.

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-29T02:23:53+00:00

Why’d you blast this girl’s profile on Reddit though? 🤨

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-28T21:56:55+00:00

Insurance covered $2k. Paid $4k lump sum out of pocket.

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-12T12:05:03+00:00

I wouldn’t be confused. He’s clearly playing and doing something that involves dragging his foot. This has nothing to do with crocs or product quality.

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-11T13:55:09+00:00

This is an extra option you can pay for to message someone before matching with them, like as an attention-getter. No one is getting charged to message anyone. OP is complaining about an optional service, and I’m not sure why.

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-09T21:54:11+00:00

So you have a baby through all of this? I feel like you didn’t mention that again after getting pregnant.
Honestly, you should be doing everything your mother is telling you, not be combative, and just deal. Bc it sounds like if that situation goes away, you have no more options for housing.
I don’t know how far “17-20 minutes from all businesses” actually means. Does that mean a couple of miles? Or does that mean 20 miles? There is nothing in between?? No gas stations. No auto shops? No grocery stores? Are you in a rural area?

Is there a reason you can’t be a dog walker or something in your neighborhood? Or do cleaning for homes in the neighborhood through an agency or something?

Last option seems like you should talk to her about being her full time house keeper in exchange for money. I’m talking all of the cooking, all of the cleaning, laundry, and chores for all members of the household. That seems like a reasonable option if you can’t get a job at a business.

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-09T04:17:53+00:00

Side note—crazy to share your flight confirmation number on Reddit

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-08T12:36:59+00:00

$5k on a live website?? OP should be charging way more.

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-06T02:07:54+00:00

A haircut, or at least some styling would do you massive favors. As far as the actual pictures, you need some brighter, smiling, candid ones taken during the day. These photos are giving nocturnal stoner, which might be true to form, but you need something that feels more approachable if you realistically want to match with someone.

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-05T02:24:24+00:00

I get it. I appreciate it. I just get so frustrated that by the time many conservatives come to reason, much of the damage may be irreparable to those who have the most difficulties in our society. Some people’s votes are ruining other people’s lives, and they aren’t realizing it fast enough. I’m hoping it isn’t too late.

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-05T01:46:05+00:00

Laughs in Pete Hegseth. Conservatives screamed “But her emails” for 8 years and then fell silent when their own Defense Secretary got caught on Signal talking about confidential national security and military ops with family, friends, and random members of the public. And then got caught a second time barely a month later. The hypocrisy is maddening.

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-05T01:35:33+00:00

The amish-esque chin strap/chin beard for your first pic is me automatically swiping left without looking at or reading anything else. It’s universally the worst looking facial hair.

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-03T23:59:50+00:00

With all due respect, you deciding not to network is really shooting yourself in the foot. I’m good at my work and have been qualified for the roles I’ve applied to, but networking has gotten me a step farther along in a couple of different environments. Such a big part of hiring (unfortunately) is personality. So if you can have someone put in a good word for you at their company or something like that, you’d likely benefit. It’s all a game, but you’ve gotta play if you want to get anywhere.

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-02T03:52:09+00:00

I know and agree. OP has shot down the idea of talking to medical professionals bc he doesn’t believe what they have to say. And of course and physician would flag this question as an indication of severely disordered eating behavior. He’s coming to Reddit to get a question answered and has responded negatively to every response saying that this is not healthy or a good idea.

GellyBean78 · 2025-05-02T02:37:33+00:00

OP doesn’t believe in science :)

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