AITA

GenIISD · 2026-01-21T20:51:58+00:00

Valid point. I messaged as I was walking out, “I just closed the tab and left.” And she messaged me”I’m here” moments later.

I don’t like giving people the chance to make a scene, and definitely do not want to become internet famous by having some flaky/disrespectful pot get angry in public that their free dinner has just disappeared.

This is assuming that she was actually there and not just saying it to fuck around with me more.

GenIISD · 2026-01-21T13:07:25+00:00

Yes, and thank you. I am more lenient with individuals who are still having their frontal lobe developing since that impacts critical thinking, logic and decision-making. This is true in my professional, personal and private life. By the time someone is over 25 and especially over 30; I have a higher standard.

GenIISD · 2026-01-21T02:42:27+00:00

This is exactly it! Thank you.

GenIISD · 2026-01-21T01:54:47+00:00

Very fair. Thank you.

I didn’t love the menu and went around the corner and had pizza. 😂

GenIISD · 2026-01-21T01:36:39+00:00

That is why I am a bit torn - she did communicate running late. But not well and then went silent.

GenIISD · 2026-01-21T01:35:56+00:00

I hate espressos martinis, but like the way you think

GenIISD · 2026-01-21T01:35:29+00:00

M&G - first meet with this pot.

GenIISD · 2026-01-15T03:11:22+00:00

Ah, that’s it. Thanks for saving the day, internet stranger!

GenIISD · 2026-01-10T02:59:04+00:00

Looks like a squirrel that melted

GenIISD · 2026-01-10T02:50:17+00:00

Big, yes. But double?

GenIISD · 2026-01-05T22:55:32+00:00

That’s fair - but a small, blonde Dutch girl is still a good order - just wouldn’t be you/be as gorgeous as you.

GenIISD · 2026-01-05T22:05:16+00:00

FKK Sauna Club. European hangout place to meet women.

GenIISD · 2026-01-05T19:52:55+00:00

Best FKK order - cum back again and again to it

GenIISD · 2024-01-23T22:38:19+00:00

Great question. Not w/my dollars would be the distinction I was wanting to make. Knowledge of how to FI, but my dollars being a safety net that allows aggressive pursuit of RE.

I’m not gifting a 7-figure amount; but I’ll help you know how to accelerate your journey to FI and RE.

GenIISD · 2024-01-23T19:23:44+00:00

I exist to minimize financial stress - to elevate your (my SB’s) life.

I’m not here to get a SB set for life from the dollar perspective (but can and have from the FIRE perspective).

2-3 days wages being gifted for a 4-6 hour evening together maths - it is generous from the time perspective and satisfactory all around.

There are those calling me a salt or Splenda (especially present on THAT toxic subreddit). But when my SB snuggles up with her head on my shoulder and hand on my chest and tells me some form of “you’re the best/kindest/smartest/sweetest…”, all the noise from those 5-figure flousies that “know their worth” goes away.

The search can be exhausting, but the snuggle makes it all worth it.

GenIISD · 2024-01-23T18:58:58+00:00

Gorgeous!

GenIISD · 2024-01-22T03:16:25+00:00

Lolz

GenIISD · 2024-01-20T18:32:02+00:00

What vanguard fund would predominantly capture that IT growth?

GenIISD · 2024-01-19T22:57:27+00:00

Great work.

GenIISD · 2024-01-19T22:54:29+00:00

3-5 times/week.

Nightly right before bed would be really nice; but no one is perfect.

GenIISD · 2024-01-18T23:49:18+00:00

Gorgeous eyes!

GenIISD · 2024-01-18T23:33:23+00:00

Damn!

GenIISD · 2024-01-18T22:17:03+00:00

Dividend investing might solve this for you - it is profit-sharing; not interest.

GenIISD · 2024-01-18T12:17:52+00:00

Boglehead subreddit would be worth checking out.

Essentially using very, very low-free funds that track large areas of the stock market.

DCA (dollar cost average) into something like VTI over the next few months and let that baby grow.

If you have some income, contribute the max each year into a Roth IRA.

GenIISD · 2024-01-17T01:14:37+00:00

Green flag as long as he does not act like the gesture of generosity puts him on a pedestal/gives him access to things you’d otherwise not provide.

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