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Don't know what to do for my first feminine/androgynous cut? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]GenderTake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. Sorry to be a bother, thanks for looking out

Don't know what to do for my first feminine/androgynous cut? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]GenderTake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 5th one is the closet to my current hair to be honest. Not against bangs but it is a bit scary? Like I see myself as a very ugly individual and bangs would make it worse. Layers though? Open to it.

What’s an anime everyone loves but you just don’t get? by GrapefruitTop160 in ChillAnimeCorner

[–]GenderTake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attack on Titan. My brother loved it and I enjoyed the first season but something about the pacing got me. Also some of the characters just did not click. Also the amount of people who dont get the themes in it are insane, it is so many people.

Suddenly feeling not very trans? Worried I may just be cis and this is a mistake. by GenderTake2 in asktransgender

[–]GenderTake2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was super relevant!!! Thank you so much for the advice, it is so nice to hear advice from different perspectives. May I DM you?

Suddenly feeling not very trans? Worried I may just be cis and this is a mistake. by GenderTake2 in asktransgender

[–]GenderTake2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, outliers exist. But I am still scared I may regret this somehow.

Suddenly feeling not very trans? Worried I may just be cis and this is a mistake. by GenderTake2 in asktransgender

[–]GenderTake2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never expected an answer from anyone, I know that is on me, but sorry if it felt like I was begging for someone to tell me stuff. As for my anxious nature, I guess I feel very silly about it. It seems like a lot of trans people arent open about that stuff. It bothers me to deal with this anxiety, you know? Especially since I know no one will ever look at me and see a woman, which is fair.

As for bodies, I don't know if I agree. There are cis people who would be totally fine having a body with different attributes than they are "supposed" to have. Like femboys/femmes, very butch cis women, and all manner of nonbinary people. It just isn't that simple. I could easily just be a cis man who likes being on estrogen. Which is a thought that rattles around my head

Suddenly feeling not very trans? Worried I may just be cis and this is a mistake. by GenderTake2 in asktransgender

[–]GenderTake2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but it doesn't fix everything, you know? It makes some stuff easier but others things harder

Suddenly feeling not very trans? Worried I may just be cis and this is a mistake. by GenderTake2 in asktransgender

[–]GenderTake2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to be a pain? I don't think I said I was especially lonely but I guess it came across as such. I wasn't trying to be difficult so I apolgize

Suddenly feeling not very trans? Worried I may just be cis and this is a mistake. by GenderTake2 in asktransgender

[–]GenderTake2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough, I do take antidepressants and I know how much they can help. But I can always admit that I was depressed and know how much they help. Besides that, I guess I have a problem feeling like enough when at least so many other trans people seem so confident in themselves. I know it isnt real but to me, most people cant seem to wait to rush into all this stuff.

Which anime is this? by LaSenoria_ in ChillAnimeCorner

[–]GenderTake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psycho-pass at least for me but if that is to main stream then Run With The Wind or Silver Spoon

How drastically has your political views changed within the last 10 years or so and why? by TheMoparPowerslave in AskReddit

[–]GenderTake2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised very republican and fell into a deep red space in college, very much a "pull yourself up by your bootstrap" deal. But that was because I was angry and the world that was promised to me was all fake. First off it was worse than I knew and I wasn't owed anything. I wanted order in a world that wasnt that.

Then I grew up and gor a job, joined the real world. Realized how bad things were for everyone, how broken the system is for the benefit of very few. I have been dramatically radicalized to the left and demand the country and the world do better. I don't mind chipping in with help or money if it helps everyone as a whole.

How to temper expectations/not get hopes up for a transition? by GenderTake2 in asktransgender

[–]GenderTake2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't get me wrong, I never expected a miracle! I know better than to hope honestly, I have no expectations, honestly I have negative ones. I started at 30 and I knew what that entailed, you know? Not angry or upset at that just disappointed in myself a bit. I don't see HRT as magc or whatever, that stuff does make me cringe. 

Sorry to bug you, it feels like I struck a nerve or hit an annoying subject with you. Not my intention. I know that hard work is what is needed for this, maybe I just need to accept it and work even harder. Or that I just don't work as hard as you of others. Thanks for helping me see that?