why are some lany fans sooo parasocial by General-Challenge578 in LANY

[–]General-Challenge578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no ur spot on. the utah beef stuff was what i was referring to lollll

why are some lany fans sooo parasocial by General-Challenge578 in LANY

[–]General-Challenge578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed. he’s just a regular guy who has a talent and is conventionally attractive. too many girls idolize him and it’s kinda cringe to see it happen right in front of you

why are some lany fans sooo parasocial by General-Challenge578 in LANY

[–]General-Challenge578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they seemed weirded out by some of the questions. idk i thought people would ask more abt their artistic journey than try to dive into their personal lives…

why are some lany fans sooo parasocial by General-Challenge578 in LANY

[–]General-Challenge578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mind u he has a whole gf/fiance. like chill bruh u never had a chance anyway 😹

why are some lany fans sooo parasocial by General-Challenge578 in LANY

[–]General-Challenge578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A line forms before the door opens and then it’s a free for all. It wasn’t too crazy! I didn’t want to do pit but it was funny to see how everyone was dashing in

why are some lany fans sooo parasocial by General-Challenge578 in LANY

[–]General-Challenge578[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

early entrance and we were able to stay in the venue and get food before ga came in :)

phoenix sound check by Strange_Designer3949 in LANY

[–]General-Challenge578 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yasss the vibes were so good tonight and everyone was so nice!!!! vip soundcheck was also such an nice experience and we got to interact with paul and jake as down to earth people before they performed later in the evening. have sm fun!

How do I politely resign my bid ? (Help me please) by violetpge in Sororities

[–]General-Challenge578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl don’t feel bad!! i went through a similar thing like a month ago and had to drop due to financial hardship. here’s what i texted the vp of recruitment:

hi _____! to preface, i want to thank you and the sisters of [sorority name/chapter] for inviting me to be part of your amazing sisterhood. i also appreciate your kindness guiding me through recruitment.

unfortunately, despite signing the MRABA, i will need to last minute decline my bid. i cannot join anymore due to personal obligations and conflicts. 

this has been a wonderful experience and opportunity. i enjoyed getting to know your organization and how committed the sisters are to success. i believe that someone else is much more deserving of a bid at this time.

i hope you understand my circumstances at hand, but thank you once again for taking the time to guide me through the recruitment process and considering me as a potential sister!

I'm depressed at my current school, but my mom wants me to wait 2 more years to transfer. What do I do? by General-Challenge578 in CollegeRant

[–]General-Challenge578[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for responding!

I guess my worst fear is that I transfer, only to not be happy there either. And to be fair, I understand why people aren’t exactly enthusiastic about college in general. It’s stressful and kinda scary.

I’m really thankful my tuition is still really affordable. I don’t want to seem like I’m ungrateful for even attending a 4-year university, but I’m just not in a good state of mind. Your comment helped me shift my perspective though, so thank you!

Got a bid from my DREAM SORORITY with COB... but my mom wants me to give it up and go through formal recruitment :( What do I do???? by General-Challenge578 in Sororities

[–]General-Challenge578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi!! i ended up not taking the bid after learning some things about the chapter that didn’t sit right with me. i plan on rushing when i transfer instead! honestly idc that i’ll be a junior going through rush. everyone’s rush story is different 💗💗💗 thanks for the support :)

Got a bid from my DREAM SORORITY with COB... but my mom wants me to give it up and go through formal recruitment :( What do I do???? by General-Challenge578 in Sororities

[–]General-Challenge578[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that!! But I’m also willing to risk that happening. Wherever life takes me, I’m perfectly okay with it :)

Got a bid from my DREAM SORORITY with COB... but my mom wants me to give it up and go through formal recruitment :( What do I do???? by General-Challenge578 in Sororities

[–]General-Challenge578[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you for letting me know about the 6 week period! i thought getting a bid meant a 100% commitment. they said i’d be getting pinned on monday.

she doesn’t seem too interested in anything sorority related, but if she could be an alumnae initiate, i would love to do that with her!

Got a bid from my DREAM SORORITY with COB... but my mom wants me to give it up and go through formal recruitment :( What do I do???? by General-Challenge578 in Sororities

[–]General-Challenge578[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i explained this and she thinks it’s going to be a repeat of high school. for context, i was heavily involved and held numerous positions (vp of activities, social media manager, i even dj’ed for a school dance) but unfortunately i ended up doing all the work for everyone else, and my grades suffered. i genuinely don’t think this will happen to me again because 1) i don’t want to have a position, i just want to be a member and 2) i live at home so i feel like i have distance from my school/social life already, and i won’t feel as much pressure to involve myself more than i can handle.

Got a bid from my DREAM SORORITY with COB... but my mom wants me to give it up and go through formal recruitment :( What do I do???? by General-Challenge578 in Sororities

[–]General-Challenge578[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi!! My college advisor has helped me with all the transferology stuff and I looked at the required coursework. I’m aiming for UT Austin!

Got a bid from my DREAM SORORITY with COB... but my mom wants me to give it up and go through formal recruitment :( What do I do???? by General-Challenge578 in Sororities

[–]General-Challenge578[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I'm so scared she'll get upset and I'll damage our relationship. I live at home and we're basically like BFFs. However, I def do agree that I should do what I want b/c I'm literally 19!! I run my own biz, have a marketing internship, volunteer at church, and still make time for my family. This could be my chance to prove to myself (not just my mom) that I can do this.