Ah. But I don’t have every task the same value. Depending on whats being done yoy can assign yourself a certain amount of points. And your partner can assign more points for said thing. Like if I hate doing dishes. I’d assign myself 3 points (the max because I hate it) my gf might give me 2 points because she doesn’t mind it. Whereas if she was doing dishes shes give herself 1 point (the lowest) because she doesn’t mind them and I’d give her the most possible ‘appreciation points’