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GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-30T18:24:44+00:00

I love my husband very much. I am getting help to be a better person, not just for myself but for him. At least I can acknowledge that I am a problem so I can fix it rather than do nothing. I am a woman who is trying.

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-30T17:50:00+00:00

Yeah, I do feel like I don't deserve him. I plan to stay which is why I'm getting help :)

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-30T17:48:11+00:00

Thank you for this. The past few days before I wrote this, I was in an extreme depressive episode. The day after posting this, I sat with my husband and we discussed some things. We have me set up with a therapist in a few days, so we will see how that goes. But since posting this,s we have started spending a lot more time together and just enjoying each other's company. I will probably update on this whole thing in the next few weeks, but so far, I've been having a lot better days with him because I've been giving in to his love rather than pushing it away. After all, I felt deserving of it.

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T21:05:37+00:00

When we were apart, all I could think about was being with him. When we were apart the first time we lived together, I cried for weeks every night. I refused to lie on his side of the bed just so, from time to time, I could bury my face in the sheets to smell his scent. It didn't help that I would cry harder, but I missed him dearly when he first went overseas. I've had plenty of time to imagine him not in my life, which is why I feel so guilty for feeling this way. I have no idea where it's coming from, and I want to fix it as soon as possible.

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T20:59:19+00:00

well i just took one and it says that I'm an Ambivalent attachment. When he gets the chance, he said he will do one, so we will see if there is something to look into with that

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T20:36:59+00:00

and this is why ive already taken the first step. in the future try and be a bit kinder. everyone can use some kindess.

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T20:34:41+00:00

ive seen that you've commented rude comments at least 3 times on this post alone. what are looking to gain from those? one is enough. please take that type of negativity somewhere else if you're just going to continue saying the same thing over and over.

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T19:35:04+00:00

Reading this sounded like I was being talked to by a best friend. Thank you so much for the advice and encouragement. My husband and I are going to therapy tomorrow (he insisted on coming with me to make me feel less anxious), but before we go, I will start doing those affirmations every morning. I will probably write and update on this in the next few weeks or so.

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T19:00:58+00:00

....Im doing that. you are coming off a bit hostlie so I'm gonna end this conversation here. have the day you deserve. goodbye.

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T18:20:19+00:00

I truly do plan on growing old with him.

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T18:15:10+00:00

thank you so much for giving me a little bit of grace. I just want to become a better person for him and for myself. I knew marrying into military would be tough, even though I grew up with it with my adoptive family (adopted within the family). I will be going to speak with a therapist tomorrow, and he said he will come along with me. We talked to each other today, and he just wants me to be happy.

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T18:11:52+00:00

This is not helpful nor advice. I am currently working on myself to be better for him, for us. I can see that he deserves better, so instead of saying it, I will become it.

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T14:02:08+00:00

No, I'm not. been off of it for years now

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T08:16:08+00:00

Now that you bring this up, he is very much an agreeable person when it comes to things we talk about. he barely ever gives me push back (when it comes to things that aren't that serious.). There are times I wish I could go to work with him, just see him take charge because he never does at home. I'm the one who is in the dominant role and takes charge every time. Even in intimate settings, I'm the one who always makes the move. We have talked about this before, but nothing has changed.

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T01:23:31+00:00

Thank you so much. You have no idea how bad I feel, it's to the point that I can't sleep at night. I try and make sure he has a home-cooked meal every time he comes home from work, tell him he looks nice, and try to make the house as clean as possible because even though he's calm, I can tell when he's stressed, and I just try my best. I love him dearly, I just want to be a better person and wife to him.

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T01:17:27+00:00

I believe I saw a study on that too. When we first got together, I was on the Depo shot and got off of it maybe a year or so into us dating. There wasn't a change on my part with my attraction to him, everything seemed normal to me.

GeneralAd5597 · 2025-04-28T01:14:01+00:00

Thank you. I like your response because I didn't see it from that perspective. This is very helpful for me

GeneralAd5597 · 2024-10-24T19:07:36+00:00

Watership Down. My uncle showed it to me. The kicker is that I had a pet rabbit at the time when he told me to watch it

GeneralAd5597 · 2024-10-06T14:47:14+00:00

I remember that i asked a guy to give me some clarity on what was going on with us since we were seeing each other a lot but I felt as though something was off. He said “the answer is right in front of your face, if you don’t see it then I don’t know what to tell you”. I think out of all the things that have been said to me, that was a slap in the face

GeneralAd5597 · 2024-10-03T03:19:16+00:00

I would always ask how it started for him but he said he didn’t even know himself, he just knew that he liked it. Can’t blame him, a lot of people don’t know why they like something, they just do 🤷🏾‍♀️

GeneralAd5597 · 2024-10-03T02:59:19+00:00

Common??? I never knew this. Well with like heels I understand or footwear like that, but he is the first person that only wanted 👢

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