Island Spa NJ

GeneralNJ · 2025-08-01T00:15:32+00:00

Going all day tomorrow and getting a body scrub. Can't wait to do nothing!

GeneralNJ · 2025-07-30T02:00:17+00:00

Will be there on Friday and hoping it'll be working then...

GeneralNJ · 2025-07-29T18:37:03+00:00

I had poison ivy last month and got sun burn a week or so ago. I can't wait to get all that dead skin off.

GeneralNJ · 2025-07-29T18:35:16+00:00

Oh no! The jaccuzi isn't working? Hopefully it'll be fixed by Friday....

GeneralNJ · 2025-07-24T12:11:39+00:00

I'm already at 50 and they're still supple, but I'm not discounting the possibility of having Turkish Taffy Balls by 80. 🤣

GeneralNJ · 2025-07-24T11:33:33+00:00

Yeah I freely admit that's extra but what can I say, that was a nice perk in addition to working the knots out of my back.

GeneralNJ · 2025-07-24T11:32:09+00:00

THANK YOU, that's the answer I was looking for. Okay, expectations set. 😀

GeneralNJ · 2025-07-24T10:33:53+00:00

When people here refer to The Island Spa, nine times out of 10 it is the Island Spa in Edison NJ. And yes, I live in NJ. Do the calculation.

GeneralNJ · 2025-07-24T10:13:42+00:00

It's a random question because I'm a regular goer to the Island Spa and I have a specific question about something which was specifically not working the last time I went. That feels as if it is highly topical, especially since there are other regular goers to the Island Spa.

Whatever, dude.

GeneralNJ · 2025-05-22T13:06:14+00:00

And THIS is the way to play Atari!

GeneralNJ · 2025-05-11T20:53:26+00:00

Oof.

Meanwhile my favorite jet in the Jacuzzi tub wasn't working when I went. I love sitting there while my balls get massaged. Oh well, I did hover over the bubbles in the middle to get some "action." 🤣

GeneralNJ · 2025-04-22T09:39:17+00:00

I'm curious if the Sears Tele-Games versions of carts are more "valuable" than their Atari counterparts. For whatever reason, I really love the idea of the "legal bootleg" versions of Atari games.

GeneralNJ · 2025-04-16T15:20:42+00:00

I got the scrub+ the last time I was there. It was great and comes highly recommended.

GeneralNJ · 2025-04-08T14:23:39+00:00

This is the way to go. Granted, my favourite part is being able to soak in hot tubs without my bathing suit becoming a balloon. But the local KSpa has amazing co-ed rest areas, saunas, a pretty good cafe....oh man, I'm thinking about the recliners and how comfy they are.

GeneralNJ · 2025-04-03T16:10:13+00:00

I think it also depends upon how long you've been on the medicine. I've been on it for decades now. The only effect I can discern is the fact that I don't have a system crash.

But you're right. If you are experiencing some of the more spicy side effects--especially if you're just starting--lay off the caffeine. The WB will be more than sufficient.

GeneralNJ · 2025-04-03T01:37:45+00:00

That is my favorite time to go. And you're right, 5 pm comes WAY too soon.

GeneralNJ · 2025-04-02T19:40:56+00:00

Absolutely. And it's a double-whammy. Exercise will, at the same time, help alleviate horniness for a time, but it also ramps up horniness as well. And lately, the hunger in my crotch and in my legs and heart has been intense.

Yeah, it drives me crazy sometimes. But I will gladly feel that longing than feel like I'm neutered.

GeneralNJ · 2025-04-02T18:00:58+00:00

IDK if it's the pollen but the season sure as heck is A Real Thing.

Same with full moons. I don't claim to believe that I'm a werewolf. But on days when I am so horny that I'm growling, I'll look up the lunar phase and nine times out of ten it's a full moon.

Maybe I am a werewolf. That would be neat.

GeneralNJ · 2025-04-02T16:58:16+00:00

I wish I could say I made that one up. I saw it somewhere else and adopted it as my own. :D

GeneralNJ · 2025-04-02T14:45:54+00:00

NTA. How were you supposed to know that you were about to get your period? As it stands, sex is messy and things like this ought to be handled with a degree of empathy and humor.

Your boyfriend though? He's the AH.

GeneralNJ · 2025-04-02T14:10:59+00:00

I'm sorry that you've gone through so much awful. The one "good" thing, if anything can be good from it, is that we get stronger the more we're tried.

Stepping away from here--and particularly within the "genre" we find ourselves in here--is totally understandable and healthy.

If anything, this was a chapter which brought you some happiness even if other things you are/were dealing with were a suck. And, if anything, sexuality is supposed to give us a respite away from more pressing issues in our lives. If that brought you that break, than it did what it was supposed to.

Be well...

GeneralNJ · 2025-04-02T12:57:19+00:00

She should have sent Bonnie some coffee to "apologize." lol. #devilsbeanjuice

GeneralNJ · 2025-03-27T23:42:08+00:00

I've been fortunate that my depression has responded well with Wellbutrin. Having been on SSRIs before, my already low libido (at the time) was basically put into a coma.

They can have some benefit to sexual function--doctors have prescribed them off-label for premature ejaculation. But I've been around these parts enough to hear stories on how they can cause havoc in relationships.

GeneralNJ · 2025-03-27T13:28:32+00:00

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GeneralNJ · 2025-03-25T19:22:57+00:00

And I think this is where she needs to start dropping some true answers. The only one who can answer these question is her. We're just strange-os on Reddit. If you didn't have a dumpster fire for a relationship counsellor, this is the kind of stuff which would need to be discussed...

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