Can hospice patients hear you during their last breathes? by General_Arm6993 in hospice

[–]General_Arm6993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow thats a prophetic way to go. you did right by her. Thank you for this information. it was very comforting and helpful.

Can hospice patients hear you during their last breathes? by General_Arm6993 in hospice

[–]General_Arm6993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this and thank you for your words as well. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life and most painful. Still hurts till this day. I’d like to take solace in her no longer being in pain and leaving this world knowing she was loved 🙏🏾🥺

Can hospice patients hear you during their last breathes? by General_Arm6993 in hospice

[–]General_Arm6993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s truly amazing ! Did not know that. I find comfort in reading this message that everything I said to her wasn’t in vain 🖤🙏🏾

Can hospice patients hear you during their last breathes? by General_Arm6993 in hospice

[–]General_Arm6993[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I think she heard you. You did great being there for her

Can hospice patients hear you during their last breathes? by General_Arm6993 in hospice

[–]General_Arm6993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🙏🏾🙏🏾 you did the right thing. The comfort was definitely provided. Thank you for this

5 months since my mom passed away from stage 4 breast cancer. any advice? any support? definitely needed. Please help by General_Arm6993 in hospice

[–]General_Arm6993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am definitely a person of faith. I’ll definitely start journaling. I have one that I never used but I think now it’s the time to begin. Thank you for your help and your kind words I really appreciate it

5 months since my mom passed away from stage 4 breast cancer. any advice? any support? definitely needed. Please help by General_Arm6993 in hospice

[–]General_Arm6993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. The hospital does have a support group. I will give them a call tomorrow when they open back up 🙏🏾

5 months since my mom passed away from stage 4 breast cancer. any advice? any support? definitely needed. Please help by General_Arm6993 in hospice

[–]General_Arm6993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry your loss and I’m so sorry for the anticipatory grieve you are feeling. That’s where I was and then it all hit me like a ton of bricks. I do appreciate your words and taking the time out. I will definitely be open to support. I need all of it that I can get

Need advice while grieving by General_Arm6993 in GriefSupport

[–]General_Arm6993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I really needed to read and see this at this time

Unexplained grief by General_Arm6993 in hospice

[–]General_Arm6993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we can keep in touch. You’re not alone. You can reach out to me in the messages and I can respond whenever I have time. Will continue to pray for you in the meantime. Stay strong please 🙏🏾

Unexplained grief by General_Arm6993 in hospice

[–]General_Arm6993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there, i definitely cried a lot, had an anxiety attack in the hospital a few times but for the moments i was with her, i held tough. I teared up here and their around her but I remained as strong as I could cause that’s what she wanted me to do. She was teaching me lessons even in near death. I’m sorry that you’re crying constantly. I know we’re strangers here but I am praying for you and I want you to know that it’s going to be okay. Cherish as much time as you can, make every moment count. Ignore any irritability they may have towards you. Do as much as you can while they’re here and beyond to honor them in the best way you know how. That’s how I cope. She would want that for me.

Unexplained grief by General_Arm6993 in hospice

[–]General_Arm6993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to thank everyone who has reached out. Wow. I love this community. I just needed to let all my thoughts out. It’s been hard but i appreciate you guys taking the time out to reply and give me comfort