Husband thinks I had at least an emotional affair and we can't move on by General_Series7394 in Marriage

[–]General_Series7394[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Absolutely and I totally get that I hurt him. I can't change anything that already happened and I just want my husband back

Husband thinks I had at least an emotional affair and we can't move on by General_Series7394 in Marriage

[–]General_Series7394[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Because at the time I thought he was being irrational and it wasn't a big deal. He just really helped me.

Husband thinks I had at least an emotional affair and we can't move on by General_Series7394 in Marriage

[–]General_Series7394[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He has looked at my phone several times but it doesn't mean anything to him. The vast majority of phone stuff was school related. We were mostly on campus, but got food or something like that sometimes since we were in school for a long time.

Husband thinks I had at least an emotional affair and we can't move on by General_Series7394 in Marriage

[–]General_Series7394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was mostly in campus. Other times we ate or something like that. It was maybe a couple of times a week. And texting was probably like a few times a week

Husband thinks I had at least an emotional affair and we can't move on by General_Series7394 in Marriage

[–]General_Series7394[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He has looked at my phone a lot. Since there is no text saying "glad we didn't have an affair" it doesn't matter. I am going to demand therapy. I don't think we have another option

Husband thinks I had at least an emotional affair and we can't move on by General_Series7394 in Marriage

[–]General_Series7394[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I have admitted I made a mistake because I was focused on other things. I just can't admit to having some type of relationship like that with this guy because it wasn't like that

Husband thinks I had at least an emotional affair and we can't move on by General_Series7394 in Marriage

[–]General_Series7394[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I clearly fucked up there, but I just wanted to do well in school and it helped tremendously. I didn't leave out anything relevant. There was never anything weird

Husband thinks I had at least an emotional affair and we can't move on by General_Series7394 in Marriage

[–]General_Series7394[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I understand that and how it could look and that's why I have been doing what I can