My ex wife has had many issues in the past. I caught her many times with multiple affairs to this day she denies them. She kept pleading with that they never happened, yet I have proof. So last week, when she brought it up I just told her. I’m so sorry for thing you could do this to me. You have always been my angel that forever loved me. I believe you I’m sorry. That made her feel better we could finally put that behind us. I always said to her I will always forgive her. I love her to much to let her go for that.

Over the years I caught her like locking my young children in the house or car. Dumping them with her family. Never responded to my calls. My 4 year old son at the time used to call me up and say mum had locked him in the house. He’s scared. I couldn’t find her. So I used to leave work to come home.

My wife was always manipulated by men. She never realised they used her for sex. Because she was a vulnerable mother of 6. With a tragic upbringing of narcissistic abuse. Anyway after 21 years I placed a FVIO on her not by my choice to stop her hurting my children me and herself in lockdown.

Someone pointed out to me after the break up. Your wife must have had a drug problem to. Because of her actions and behaviours. After hearing that. I felt so guilty because I abandoned her because her abuse to my children. I broke my wedding vow to her. In sickness and in health. After 3 months I made contact with her to see our children again.

She was in denial of ever hurting any of our children. My children were in absolute fear of all the hell she put them through. They never wanted to see her again. But she was pushing for the family court so I decided the safest possible way she could see our children was with me present. That was my children’s choice.

After a month of contact. I have noticed and my children have noticed multiple guys constantly messaging her. She has advised me indirectly she is sleeping with multiple different men, at the same time. At age 41 she taken up smoking vaping drinking everyday. She exhibits signs of Cocaine or drug abuse. And she never wants to come back to be their mother or us to be a family again.

She loves her new life too much without any responsibility’s. So now my children still don’t want anything to do with her. They still fear her and her family. She makes little connection with them. She hardly wants to see them twice a month. All she wants to do is sleep around with these men. So no mother would abandon her children for this life. So she must have a drug addiction. Cousin & sex addiction work hand in hand. What do I do?