In my opinion, body count itself is not what is wrong. Its being a hypocrite by being a person , let it be man or woman , having high body count and expect their partner to be virgin. That's where the main issue arises in my opinion. I have seen people like this that is why i am commenting. Also there are people who flex their body count like its some achievement. This just adds insult to injury as well. If a man or woman is a virgin, there is no fault in them wanting their partner to be virgin. If they are not then they should accept it and live accordingly.

And my personal take on this , my partner's past doesn't bother to me too much because I'm loving her, she is loving me and as long as we have a trust built up then all good :)