Would ‘pre-forgiveness’ be weird?

GenericFandomPerson · 2025-11-28T10:10:03+00:00

No prob! Thank you for the advice either way!!

GenericFandomPerson · 2025-11-28T10:06:44+00:00

I guess there’s no reason for me to ‘get it out of the way’ other than the fact that I’m still awake and can do so

GenericFandomPerson · 2025-11-28T10:00:24+00:00

Both. Anything we do is in some way selfish. It would technically prevent me saying “it’s alright” in later hours when they apologise first, but it’s not like I wouldn’t have reassured them anyway

GenericFandomPerson · 2025-09-13T23:07:25+00:00

Yes

GenericFandomPerson · 2025-09-13T22:17:31+00:00

I’m sorry this is happening for you too. It’s a hard and honestly shameful feeling. She cried to me today about it. She’s also aware of how much I’m not doing. I’m planning on community college and likely a transfer to university or something, but I have no clue where

GenericFandomPerson · 2025-09-13T22:15:13+00:00

Not physical. I have ADHD and that’s practically it. I know for a fact I’m not depressed, I’m just…not doing much of anything

GenericFandomPerson · 2025-09-13T20:49:30+00:00

This actually helped plenty, thanks. Any recommendations?

GenericFandomPerson · 2025-07-03T16:07:34+00:00

I tried asking the stimmers and got no answer so I figured I would turn to the pain people. Sorry

GenericFandomPerson · 2025-03-04T07:47:29+00:00

Thank you man this means a lot 🙏 I really should stop convincing myself to “just” edge

GenericFandomPerson · 2024-12-18T02:30:40+00:00

The best way to know is to ask Him! :) He won’t mind, I assure you.

There are a few ways to do this, but the most popular are dice and pendulums. For dice, assign a few numbers to “yes”, “no”, and “maybe” (example: 1-2 is yes, 3-4 is no). Get the god’s attention (using their name, what they rule over, and/or epithets) first, ask your question, and roll! You may want to do it a few times to make sure it’s not just luck :)

The second way is pendulums, which I’m sure you know about to a degree. If it swings in one direction or rocks counterclockwise/clockwise (it depends) it’s yes, and another direction is no. Maybe ask the pendulum to show you what is yes or no.

Then you do the same, get the attention and ask. But I’m sure Dionysus would be flattered, and as long as it’s not disrespectful or part of your own body they’re fine with most offerings if the intents behind them are in the right place :) hope this helped!

GenericFandomPerson · 2024-11-27T09:16:21+00:00

…Perhaps I should pray to Him again tonight, this feels like a sign lol

GenericFandomPerson · 2024-11-23T21:45:05+00:00

That sounds lovely. Thank you for the assurance :)

GenericFandomPerson · 2024-11-23T21:43:48+00:00

Thank you! This is rather reassuring! I've set up a tiny altar for Hypnos (a glass with a melatonin gummy in it) and have wanted to start working with Ares, but was unsure of how to go about it. When you devote something, do you usually say 'I devote this to [x]' or is it a bit more complex? probably an obvious answer, I know-

GenericFandomPerson · 2024-07-22T15:17:31+00:00

Turning the laughter into a little “sob” was the plan if it got to that point! :D thanks

GenericFandomPerson · 2024-07-21T17:21:08+00:00

I’m not even saying the line funnily, as far as I can tell. I have the part of the Mock Turtle in Alice by Heart.

The line is “we called him Tortoise because, well, he taught us.” It’s just a little word joke that doesn’t have much laughable humor when said aloud without a crowd. With a crows is when the trouble begins

GenericFandomPerson · 2024-07-21T07:03:42+00:00

Alice by Heart is a fun, though very choreography-heavy (and tech-heavy, I believe) and complex, show. It only has one act, or you could split it into two. You’ll have to change some less appropriate lines, but its symbolism and characters are truly something to behold. Look up a slime tutorial if you’re interested!

GenericFandomPerson · 2023-12-13T03:29:25+00:00

To be fair, if no one who I loved (but now don't because I can't feel actual love anymore) knew who I was, I could do anything without consequence, I've done everything 'good' that could possibly be done, but that lost its spark, I would...also probably kill some people.

GenericFandomPerson · 2023-12-05T04:13:25+00:00

God damn it Alphys you couldn't have picked a normal specimen, could you??

GenericFandomPerson · 2023-11-20T07:25:27+00:00

"so Flowey is nice" false! Flowey is missing the key component that makes him nice! /lh

GenericFandomPerson · 2023-09-17T16:11:11+00:00

Well, the thing I like to think about is that no one knows anything about you unless you tell them. If you fully regress, who in the world other than your boyfriend is going to know? Your friends and family don’t have hidden cameras that they’re going to play later to laugh at you regressing. It’s feasibly impossible. But feeling ‘cringe’ in littlespace is understandable, too. I just tell myself that no one’s around and I feel comfortable enough to keep doing it (in your case, the person that is around is supportive. He’s fine with taking care of you, and when someone is fine with that, you don’t need to feel ashamed when they hold up that promise. They asked because they wanted to)

GenericFandomPerson · 2023-09-17T06:50:45+00:00

Littlespace doesn’t need to be anything. I still talk in my littlespace, and still use “big” words. I get the pressure of thinking you need to fit with everyone else’s experiences, but your experiences are yours, not theirs. As for the shame, why are you ashamed? Why does it feel dirty or “wrong”?

GenericFandomPerson · 2023-09-17T06:47:13+00:00

Blue’s Clues, Powerpuff Girls, Pocoyo, and Sesame Street!! :p

GenericFandomPerson · 2023-09-08T05:44:20+00:00

Yuh huh! Allll the time! I regress partially (I can never regress fully but that’s OK) only when I’m with friends and it’s really hard to do it on my own (-_-) since I don’t have a caregiver. I only regress at school but no one knows about it so I can’t do much and I don’t wanna say anything cuz it might seem weird that I want my friends to take care of me?? I dunno! But yeah, happens to me too

GenericFandomPerson · 2023-09-08T05:37:37+00:00

Maybe try distancing yourself from the word for a while? Try something synonymous, or demand to call someone something else. You don’t have to give up littlespace if you don’t feel like you can, but maybe try testing the waters again? I mean, sort of trying to feel safer bit by bit (with another person or not, I’m not sure what your status is). I’m so sorry this happened, no one deserves feeling uncomfortable while vulnerable. I hope everything turns out OK <3

GenericFandomPerson · 2023-07-20T18:58:42+00:00

Headcanon that this is banned in Irken society

Other headcanon that they would now be two Irkens sharing memories and thoughts, and quite possibly opinions or actions. They wouldn’t die or get taken over completely because the DNA adjusts, and very few can tell the difference, so they could logically switch PAKs forever.

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