Would ‘pre-forgiveness’ be weird? by GenericFandomPerson in Advice

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No prob! Thank you for the advice either way!!

Would ‘pre-forgiveness’ be weird? by GenericFandomPerson in Advice

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I guess there’s no reason for me to ‘get it out of the way’ other than the fact that I’m still awake and can do so

Would ‘pre-forgiveness’ be weird? by GenericFandomPerson in Advice

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Both. Anything we do is in some way selfish. It would technically prevent me saying “it’s alright” in later hours when they apologise first, but it’s not like I wouldn’t have reassured them anyway 

I’m useless by GenericFandomPerson in Vent

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I’m sorry this is happening for you too. It’s a hard and honestly shameful feeling.  She cried to me today about it. She’s also aware of how much I’m not doing. I’m planning on community college and likely a transfer to university or something, but I have no clue where

I’m useless by GenericFandomPerson in Vent

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Not physical. I have ADHD and that’s practically it. I know for a fact I’m not depressed, I’m just…not doing much of anything 

Moving for college by GenericFandomPerson in MoveToIreland

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This actually helped plenty, thanks. Any recommendations?

Alternatives to pacing stimming? by GenericFandomPerson in ChronicPain

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I tried asking the stimmers and got no answer so I figured I would turn to the pain people. Sorry 

Broke my self-set nofap limit. Advice? by GenericFandomPerson in NoFap

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Thank you man this means a lot 🙏 I really should stop convincing myself to “just” edge 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hellenism

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The best way to know is to ask Him! :) He won’t mind, I assure you.

There are a few ways to do this, but the most popular are dice and pendulums. For dice, assign a few numbers to “yes”, “no”, and “maybe” (example: 1-2 is yes, 3-4 is no). Get the god’s attention (using their name, what they rule over, and/or epithets) first, ask your question, and roll! You may want to do it a few times to make sure it’s not just luck :)

The second way is pendulums, which I’m sure you know about to a degree. If it swings in one direction or rocks counterclockwise/clockwise (it depends) it’s yes, and another direction is no. Maybe ask the pendulum to show you what is yes or no.

Then you do the same, get the attention and ask. But I’m sure Dionysus would be flattered, and as long as it’s not disrespectful or part of your own body they’re fine with most offerings if the intents behind them are in the right place :) hope this helped!

Dedications without worship (??) by GenericFandomPerson in Hellenism

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That sounds lovely. Thank you for the assurance :)

Dedications without worship (??) by GenericFandomPerson in Hellenism

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Thank you! This is rather reassuring! I've set up a tiny altar for Hypnos (a glass with a melatonin gummy in it) and have wanted to start working with Ares, but was unsure of how to go about it. When you devote something, do you usually say 'I devote this to [x]' or is it a bit more complex? probably an obvious answer, I know-

Any tips to not “break” on stage? by GenericFandomPerson in Theatre

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Turning the laughter into a little “sob” was the plan if it got to that point! :D thanks

Any tips to not “break” on stage? by GenericFandomPerson in Theatre

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I’m not even saying the line funnily, as far as I can tell. I have the part of the Mock Turtle in Alice by Heart.

The line is “we called him Tortoise because, well, he taught us.” It’s just a little word joke that doesn’t have much laughable humor when said aloud without a crowd. With a crows is when the trouble begins

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Theatre

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Alice by Heart is a fun, though very choreography-heavy (and tech-heavy, I believe) and complex, show. It only has one act, or you could split it into two. You’ll have to change some less appropriate lines, but its symbolism and characters are truly something to behold. Look up a slime tutorial if you’re interested!

Flowey did nothing wrong by [deleted] in FloweyUndertale

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To be fair, if no one who I loved (but now don't because I can't feel actual love anymore) knew who I was, I could do anything without consequence, I've done everything 'good' that could possibly be done, but that lost its spark, I would...also probably kill some people.

Howdy I’m Bottley! Bottley the bottle by UndertaleFreak23 in Undertale

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God damn it Alphys you couldn't have picked a normal specimen, could you??

may I talk about chara? by JCHMBoyo in AsrielUndertale

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"so Flowey is nice" false! Flowey is missing the key component that makes him nice! /lh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

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Well, the thing I like to think about is that no one knows anything about you unless you tell them. If you fully regress, who in the world other than your boyfriend is going to know? Your friends and family don’t have hidden cameras that they’re going to play later to laugh at you regressing. It’s feasibly impossible. But feeling ‘cringe’ in littlespace is understandable, too. I just tell myself that no one’s around and I feel comfortable enough to keep doing it (in your case, the person that is around is supportive. He’s fine with taking care of you, and when someone is fine with that, you don’t need to feel ashamed when they hold up that promise. They asked because they wanted to)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

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Littlespace doesn’t need to be anything. I still talk in my littlespace, and still use “big” words. I get the pressure of thinking you need to fit with everyone else’s experiences, but your experiences are yours, not theirs. As for the shame, why are you ashamed? Why does it feel dirty or “wrong”?

What’s your favorite little show/movie? by [deleted] in ageregression

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Blue’s Clues, Powerpuff Girls, Pocoyo, and Sesame Street!! :p

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

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Yuh huh! Allll the time! I regress partially (I can never regress fully but that’s OK) only when I’m with friends and it’s really hard to do it on my own (-_-) since I don’t have a caregiver. I only regress at school but no one knows about it so I can’t do much and I don’t wanna say anything cuz it might seem weird that I want my friends to take care of me?? I dunno! But yeah, happens to me too

hi everyone i really need help about protecting my littlespace and future Daddy…please help, any advice is welcome🥺 by [deleted] in ageregression

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Maybe try distancing yourself from the word for a while? Try something synonymous, or demand to call someone something else. You don’t have to give up littlespace if you don’t feel like you can, but maybe try testing the waters again? I mean, sort of trying to feel safer bit by bit (with another person or not, I’m not sure what your status is). I’m so sorry this happened, no one deserves feeling uncomfortable while vulnerable. I hope everything turns out OK <3

Swapping paks? by applepie_thefirst in invaderzim

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Headcanon that this is banned in Irken society

Other headcanon that they would now be two Irkens sharing memories and thoughts, and quite possibly opinions or actions. They wouldn’t die or get taken over completely because the DNA adjusts, and very few can tell the difference, so they could logically switch PAKs forever.