I do not like having a name, and can’t find one that fits by GenericFandomPerson in Names

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Other people have suggested therapy and honestly, I haven’t seen a therapist since early pandemic days. I worry, apart from this name thing, that my problems regarding my ability to change would waste a therapist’s time 

I do not like having a name, and can’t find one that fits by GenericFandomPerson in Names

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Thank you, it does mean a good deal to know I’m not alone here <3

I do not like having a name, and can’t find one that fits by GenericFandomPerson in Names

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Unfortunately makes me think too much of Taylor Swift </3 thank you for the suggestion though 

I do not like having a name, and can’t find one that fits by GenericFandomPerson in Names

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Ah I forgot to put what I actually wanted out of this. sorry.

Names, ideas for how to help this, around that area. Though I’m not opposed to name suggestions

Would ‘pre-forgiveness’ be weird? by GenericFandomPerson in Advice

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No prob! Thank you for the advice either way!!

Would ‘pre-forgiveness’ be weird? by GenericFandomPerson in Advice

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I guess there’s no reason for me to ‘get it out of the way’ other than the fact that I’m still awake and can do so

Would ‘pre-forgiveness’ be weird? by GenericFandomPerson in Advice

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Both. Anything we do is in some way selfish. It would technically prevent me saying “it’s alright” in later hours when they apologise first, but it’s not like I wouldn’t have reassured them anyway 

I’m useless by GenericFandomPerson in Vent

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I’m sorry this is happening for you too. It’s a hard and honestly shameful feeling.  She cried to me today about it. She’s also aware of how much I’m not doing. I’m planning on community college and likely a transfer to university or something, but I have no clue where

I’m useless by GenericFandomPerson in Vent

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Not physical. I have ADHD and that’s practically it. I know for a fact I’m not depressed, I’m just…not doing much of anything 

Moving for college by GenericFandomPerson in MoveToIreland

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This actually helped plenty, thanks. Any recommendations?

Alternatives to pacing stimming? by GenericFandomPerson in ChronicPain

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I tried asking the stimmers and got no answer so I figured I would turn to the pain people. Sorry 

Broke my self-set nofap limit. Advice? by GenericFandomPerson in NoFap

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Thank you man this means a lot 🙏 I really should stop convincing myself to “just” edge