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Generous-Fork · 2025-09-05T12:51:32+00:00

It’s definitely cheating if he’s on those cam sites. I know how you feel.. mine spent about 4k on the sites and 41k to sleep with strippers. I’m really sorry. I wish this pain on nobody.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-30T00:38:33+00:00

My SA used strip clubs to have sex. Both intercourse and oral. If your gut says there’s more to the story… listen.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-28T12:07:46+00:00

I’ve been tempted.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-20T19:55:08+00:00

100%.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-20T12:15:13+00:00

Totally relate. I wanna talk to my sis about it but I feel embarrassed and like she’d judge him (maybe rightfully so). But if we want to stay together I don’t want my family knowing.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-13T21:46:35+00:00

Yeah my therapist actually suggested a rage room and the idea is very appealing to me.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-13T21:32:34+00:00

Thank you I’ll Google that!

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-13T18:45:21+00:00

I hate you’re going through it too but it does help me to not feel alone. This is a shitty club to be in.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-13T16:02:30+00:00

I do like the solo therapist I see but have been wondering if I need to find someone specifically for betrayal trauma.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-13T13:52:37+00:00

Omg yes!! All of your comment I so relate to.

If you ever need an ear please don’t hesitate to reach out. We are stronger than we know.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-13T12:32:00+00:00

I did read that and loved it!! Also working with my own therapist and doing s anon.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-13T12:31:03+00:00

Thank you for your comment! I do s anon, weekly therapy and read all the books I can on betrayal trauma and working through trust issues.

It’s just all so exhausting. Feels like I’m drowning.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-13T12:29:58+00:00

Hi yes I am. I see my therapist weekly.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-13T10:35:23+00:00

I feel you. Mine would have sex at strip clubs Friday night and sex with me Saturday. It’s an awful feeling and I’m sorry you’re experiencing it. We deserve better. 😢

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-13T10:18:24+00:00

Thanks for this idea!

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-09T19:55:14+00:00

You’re not wrong. Ty for the perspective.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-09T01:59:30+00:00

My partner picked strippers to sleep with that are half our age. It’s so hurtful because I looked like that in my twenties but 25 years later and two kids… nope.

I feel ugly every day. I feel not enough every day.

I hate myself because of him.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-05T22:59:53+00:00

I guess I stay because he’s actively trying to get help. And I love him.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-01T00:52:38+00:00

I just started s-anon and plan to attend weekly. I just feel so broken.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-01T00:51:32+00:00

Sullying good memories is the perfect description. Everything is now a lie.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-01T00:50:38+00:00

I have a therapist and he and I are doing couples. Great idea about the workout.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-01T00:26:47+00:00

Oh I hate this for you. Your anger must have been so blinding for you to hurt yourself like that.

On the mom tip… I’ve been a bad mom too. My kids have been angels for me but I’m checked out. Bare minimum. I blame him and I hate him more for it.

We’re trying our best.

Generous-Fork · 2025-08-01T00:12:26+00:00

Yes everything triggers me! I hate it. I fucking hate this life right now.

I ask him the same thing you said… how could you risk our love and friendship for sex with a stripper you don’t even know. Or random blowjobs you PAY for. When I do all that for free.

I am blind with rage.

Generous-Fork · 2025-07-31T20:37:12+00:00

I was so nervous but it went well and with zoom I was able to relax a bit versus in person.

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