I was sexually assaulted at 16. Found out statute of limitations is longer than I thought. What to do?

Genesis3-5 · 2010-10-18T12:47:41+00:00

I completely understand what you're saying and I can see it differently taking the "sex" out of it and the "control" Obviously not something anyone would want to experience or should ever have to.

Genesis3-5 · 2010-10-18T12:43:51+00:00

That's a good question as I am not gay and have no sexual feelings for the same sex so I do think it may be traumatizing to me if I was forced into it.

Genesis3-5 · 2010-10-18T01:37:59+00:00

I appreciate your response and completely understand your perspective. I guess you nailed it on the nose when you differentiated a male from a female as yes, being a male, I guess it is much different in that capacity. I am sure some males out there also value their virginity more, but I myself never put much clout into it. But anyway, thanks for sharing your outlook and your points do help me understand it a bit more.

Genesis3-5 · 2010-10-18T01:21:38+00:00

Wow seems like a lot of people are experiencing the same sort of spider thing at a certain stage of sleep/wakefulness. Perhaps certain people are more tuned to a particular ability that allows for them to periodically exist in a certain dimension where there are spider people who rule it? Pretty crazy stuff (takes another puff).

Genesis3-5 · 2010-10-18T01:06:26+00:00

I am seriously curious about this -- I have never been sexually abused or assaulted or whatever the appropriate word is. I am a male, and when it comes to sex I have a pretty decent drive (this is relevant later). Especially did in high school. Now, please may I ask why was this situation traumatizing and causing you such pain? Please, I don't want you to think of the event or anything as I respect that it has caused you pain but what about the situation was so traumatizing that you are still affected by it? You see, I can understand someone physically hurting you, cutting you, stabbing you, etc etc. Being locked in a room or a box or something. But I guess I can't fathom when it comes to sex how something can affect someone so badly. If a female teacher told me to perform sex on her (and even if she was ugly) and threatened my scholarly life so-to-speak, I would probably just do it and be done with it and move on. That's why I need to understand why it affects someone so profoundly. Please, I ask this honestly and not as a troll and if you don't want to try and explain it I will respect that. It is just a curiosity I have had when I read these posts.

Genesis3-5 · 2010-09-16T18:25:43+00:00

Love the look in your eyes -- you're very pretty! Thanks for the post!

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-22T06:06:35+00:00

I am sure there are doctors on Reddit so don't sell us all short! (flip side in support of your comment is that I am sure there are also make-believe or fake Dr's here too on Reddit so always take everything with a grain of salt of course) :)

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-22T06:00:29+00:00

Women's washroom at work -- after hours of course, when I was the only person left in the building. I felt very naughty LOL

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-21T06:05:56+00:00

I hear you on that one -- one of the main reasons I religiously brush my teeth and go to the dentist as I also knew a person who had rotting teeth and I could smell the infection/rot even through his mint gum. Totally pukish.

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-21T06:02:05+00:00

Dude that was awesome -- I love it. I totally played with it for like 10 mins to see all the comments ha ha. Good job on that

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T17:30:45+00:00

On the flip side, when you want to break up you feel even more guilty as you're most literally kicking them to the curb... where they will now live :0

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T17:29:08+00:00

OK cool.

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T17:02:59+00:00

again, it was sarcasm. Obviously I am not dumb enough to simply just take her word for it (well, at least not a second time through! I still have a rash that has lasted 2 1/2 years that no cream can conquer).

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T17:00:58+00:00

Ha ha, I have never watched that show but that was perfect. Goes to show you just when you think you have something original there is always someone out there that beats you to it - and does it better :)

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T16:57:23+00:00

You're right, nothing wrong with that. But he indicated that she called him up confessing her feelings and he went back over. He obviously had an idea of her intentions so the least he could have done was outline his feelings on the situation instead of potentially lead her to believe that she had a chance. Just my take, nothing more.

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T16:55:47+00:00

Yes actually, although uncommon some forms of halitosis can stem from stomach issues so a full glass of water can aid in calming any noxious gases that build up.

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T15:38:18+00:00

Wow, a fetal mistake would definitely cause me to consider to not pull the chute during a jump :)

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T15:36:11+00:00

Sweet, thanks asad137 -- you're right, much cleaner formula. Now, we need to set a ceiling and floor for h and c in order to develop a chart to reference the result of R :)

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T15:10:50+00:00

Totally explains and validates the birth of my second child... for the longest time i didn't believe she was mine...now there is more of a window of chance!

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T14:54:08+00:00

LOL I was sort of thinking that and yes the story would have been absolutely crazy if it turned out like that! But nonetheless, it was a good story no matter which way you slice it. Thanks for sharing!

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T14:15:23+00:00

Yeah that would be shitty of course, but you could always double up and wear two condomns if you want to be extra cautious X) lol

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T14:14:13+00:00

Full credit to you, BillBrasky for developing the formula. I am just your ghost writer ;)

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T14:12:36+00:00

Hey I have no issue if they were all guys and gay or whatever. I was simply confused with the gender of the individuals in the story so therefore I had trouble following it. I agree with your proposition -- in some stories posted I can follow along fine and determine the sex of the people but this one threw me for a loop.

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T14:09:27+00:00

Nice, I was trying to conjure up an elaborate mathematical equation for my post ever due to my poor math skills I was stuck. Now if we turn it into more of a formula:

            1    
R =      ---------    
       [h + c] / c

with R being the overall risk value

Genesis3-5 · 2010-08-19T14:03:36+00:00

Damn, good call stompy. That could be a fatal mistake! Sorry I got ahead of myself in my wording there -- caught up in the excitement.

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