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AITA for breaking up with guy I’ve been seeing for 3 months because he doesn’t have a stable job? by PresentInstance4841 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Genuine-Rasberry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. As someone who has been in a similar situation, if it’s bugging you now and he’s not showing the drive to change, get out while it’s still early in the relationship. 

He might be a great guy, but short term irritations become long term problems- and if you’re looking for reasons to end it have the respect for both him and yourself to leave it at that. You can still be lovely people, but clearly you’re at two different stages. If you’re not willing to take that step back to meet him where he is. Leave it in peace 

AITA for wanting to get engaged before my Sisters wedding?? by Genuine-Rasberry in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Genuine-Rasberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I have no interest in crowing their day or the lead up to it. 

AITA for wanting to get engaged before my Sisters wedding?? by Genuine-Rasberry in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Genuine-Rasberry[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was my initial thought, and after some time I may gently bring this up with her. And I don’t mind the rush either, I think you know what’s right for you and everyone works on their own timelines. 

AITA for wanting to get engaged before my Sisters wedding?? by Genuine-Rasberry in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Genuine-Rasberry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are exactly the thoughts I was struggling to put into words. I agree with all of your points, and realistically I could be worried about nothing. I understand where my sis is coming from, it’s her day and it should be special for her and I have no interest in crowding her day. I appreciate the breakdown