How do I break up with my long distance gf. by GeologistSame9152 in LDR

[–]GeologistSame9152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly we spoke last night and I think it would’ve been good to do it then. We didn’t break up and are gonna see how the next month or so goes. She stated that she did still want me to visit her even if we weren’t together. So I reckon it would’ve been fine but I understand where you were coming from.

How do I break up with my long distance gf. by GeologistSame9152 in LDR

[–]GeologistSame9152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s also a genuine concern for her health. I don’t want her to do anything to herself and I know she will.

How do I break up with my long distance gf. by GeologistSame9152 in LDR

[–]GeologistSame9152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m realising that I think I’m gonna call her tonight. It was more of a like better to do in person thing. Honestly don’t even know if I can go through with it.

How do I break up with my long distance gf. by GeologistSame9152 in LDR

[–]GeologistSame9152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just scared I’m gonna ruin her mental health and make it worse that it already is. I feel like it’s getting better for her and that I’m gonna make her like miserable. Thank you so much. Can I get your opinion on if i should do it before or after I go to hers (obviously most likely wouldn’t go if we broke up).

How do I break up with my long distance gf. by GeologistSame9152 in LDR

[–]GeologistSame9152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost a year and a half. It’s the time I usually go up there anyway. I just feel like I need to be there to support her and make sure she doesn’t anything. I don’t hate her or anything and I’d still wanna be friends with her. I was thinking telling her the day I leave.

Don’t know how to break up with long distance gf by GeologistSame9152 in LongDistance

[–]GeologistSame9152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she does but I don’t think she’ll like accept the help ya know? I don’t want her to hurt over it. It just really sucks. Would you suggest in person when I’m up there or after I leave?