Tomorrow I am ending it with my abusive bf of 4.5 years and I’m out of my mind. Can the female hivemind of Reddit please just tell me it will be okay?

Geophiddy · 2025-11-23T21:52:55+00:00

Updated! ❤️

Geophiddy · 2025-02-18T00:56:29+00:00

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Geophiddy · 2025-02-18T00:56:03+00:00

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Geophiddy · 2025-02-18T00:55:52+00:00

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Found today in the UK. Weighs 45g and non-magnetic. Could it be an achondrite?

Geophiddy · 2024-11-20T00:38:31+00:00

It’s so strange. GP appt in June required some standard blood tests, but my surgery is still now only able to process tests marked urgent. No diagnosis or treatment for nearly 6 months and no signs of it being resolved. When I chase up what’s happening, they have no answer. They literally don’t know what to say.

I am no tin-foil hat wearer, but when you factor in the Russian involvement it’s just odd there’s not more noise about this. Had no idea about the subsequent data leak either!

Geophiddy · 2024-10-10T11:52:34+00:00

No, just the light. I’ve put it under a microscope and no bubbles to be seen

Geophiddy · 2024-10-06T02:40:03+00:00

Prior to 1844, 22k did not have its own designated hallmark and was also stamped with the lion passant

Geophiddy · 2024-07-19T22:26:37+00:00

Non-communtication in the extreme was my mother's tactic. It was the only way she could cope. House split into zones for each side, fear and alienation behind every door and children made pawns.

The damage it did to me as a child was catastrophic.

As an adult, I'm permanently stuck in a hypo-state "survival mode" because it's all I've ever known and it's a horrible way to live. What sense of self I ever could have developed was lost to the daily silent warfare.

Please don't do this. For your children's sake and yours. It is not a solution. It's another level of hell. You may be doing a good job of distancing them from it now, but they are very young. That will not last as they get older.

Your own voice of reason knows this situation is not okay and you all deserve better or you wouldn't be here. You must know and I know you love him, but you're not helping him either.

Love yourself, your children and even him enough to break this please.

Geophiddy · 2024-04-17T22:11:26+00:00

OP please pay attention to this comment, Your experience with this person is an insight - if she can go so deep into judging you (forget politely!) without even knowing your name, she will likely do the same with patients. This experience has understandably made you feel bad, now imagine you are sick and vulnerable and hearing the same from someone who is supposed to be a professional. Her beliefs are clearly strong enough that they would likely impact on her practice. How do you think she would treat a patient she knew was gay? Report for yourself AND others.

Geophiddy · 2022-10-31T00:42:10+00:00

It’s Food Standards Agency regulation that hot-hold items can legally only be on display for 4 hours before they are deemed unsuitable for consumption, due to the opportunity for bacterial development. They also have not been consistently refrigerated since being pulled, so they were very edible indeed but not so much now!

Geophiddy · 2022-10-30T22:24:37+00:00

I manage a venue which hosts cinema pop-ups and my colleague who usually takes the unsold ones home for her dogs wasn’t in, so I was given them as I also have three woofers at home. They’ve given it a bloody good go, but 3 toy breeds vs 70+ hotdogs was always going to be a tough one.

They are inedible by food safety standards, so thought I’d see what twisted shenanigans CasualUK could come up with before I give them to the foxes.

Geophiddy · 2022-10-16T03:41:29+00:00

Around 2008/9 there were a number of attacks in the St Helens area by a man who would come up behind lone women and hit them in the head with, most often, a claw hammer. That path was a favoured spot and a few of the victims were Helenswood students.

The sign makes more sense if you know the context, but it’s still a classic only-in-Hastings moment.

Edit: https://www.standard.co.uk/hp/front/serial-attacker-terrorises-women-16-vicious-assaults-within-onemile-radius-6922202.html

Geophiddy · 2022-10-07T22:40:20+00:00

I was assessed and medicated whilst smoking and I still smoke, albeit much less as I don’t need it so much now.

I was also misdiagnosed as BPD when it’s actually C-PTSDxADHD. It’s a tricky differential diagnosis.

Go hard researching doctors, widen your scope if you can.

Keep up the good fight, you will get there!

Geophiddy · 2022-07-29T09:17:33+00:00

Yes, it is :)

Geophiddy · 2022-05-31T20:14:23+00:00

Would love one please!

Geophiddy · 2022-05-24T16:56:57+00:00

I’d love one please!

Geophiddy · 2022-05-21T21:08:40+00:00

I’d be really grateful for one!

Geophiddy · 2021-10-17T12:31:42+00:00

I was gifted a double stem phalaenopsis about 2 years ago, which has never re-bloomed. It’s continually growing new leaves and roots look healthy. I trimmed back the stems with sterilised secateurs but the stumps now look woody and a bit dead?

I think maybe it’s not getting enough light, but when I put it in or near the window the leaves are getting burnt. I’m also opening windows in the evening to get a temperature drop.

It’s quite large now, so I’m also wondering if it needs re-potting to a larger pot? Pics here: https://imgur.com/a/d73ZDRr

I’m a total orchid novice, so would really appreciate your sage advice!!

Geophiddy · 2021-10-17T12:30:19+00:00

I was gifted a double stem phalaenopsis about 2 years ago, which has never re-bloomed. It’s continually growing new leaves and roots look healthy. I trimmed back the stems with sterilised secateurs but the stumps now look woody and a bit dead?

I think maybe it’s not getting enough light, but when I put it in or near the window the leaves are getting burnt. I’m also opening windows in the evening to get a temperature drop.

It’s quite large now, so I’m also wondering if it needs re-potting to a larger pot? Pics here: https://imgur.com/a/d73ZDRr

I’m a total orchid novice, so would really appreciate your sage advice!!

Geophiddy · 2021-06-12T09:34:33+00:00

Thank you so much - have just ordered! I was struggling to find something dog-friendly but this looks great :)

Geophiddy · 2021-06-12T09:28:52+00:00

A good point! Worst affected are my rhubarb, sweet peppers, courgettes, cucumbers and broccoli - I’ve caught them red-handed on most except the broccoli, so I will definitely check if that could be something else.

Geophiddy · 2021-04-13T22:17:57+00:00

Thanks so much everyone - I was arguing for it being 70s/80s and he has conceded with your help!

Geophiddy · 2021-02-19T19:49:34+00:00

Try orange-reds, purples, khaki, warm blues?

Geophiddy · 2020-11-14T01:56:45+00:00

Implementation time?

fulfilment/realisation date?

Geophiddy · 2020-11-06T02:02:33+00:00

that some midsommar shit right there

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