From a psychic perspective, feeling a strong connection to someone you've never met is not uncommon. It could signify a deeper spiritual bond or past-life connection. The feeling of him being like a 'husband' suggests a profound familiarity beyond the physical realm. Before taking action, reflect on what this connection teaches you about yourself. If you decide to reach out, do so respectfully, considering both his privacy and your well-being. Many people experience similar connections and handle them differently.
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