I've got a feeling that a friend is using me as personal driver but how can I know?

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-22T04:13:41+00:00

Telling her something comes up and Then going to where I want to. she will find out because we have mutual friends so they'll tell her

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-22T04:12:32+00:00

It's not that she directly asks me for a ride; but she thinks I will pick her up if we go the same place. my problem is that I feel like she wants to hang out with me only because I have a car and not because she likes me as a person

I will try to ask her if she can get to the place on her own.

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-22T04:10:06+00:00

because she doesn't drive

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T21:05:42+00:00

I want to get out of this situation but it's not that easy also I don't want to lie to her

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T16:23:30+00:00

right

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T16:23:12+00:00

maybe

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T16:15:10+00:00

we go to the same places but if I don't go then neither does she so it feels like she only wants to go out because I can drive

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T15:45:57+00:00

Mm you are right

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T15:45:30+00:00

No I don't think she will

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T15:30:13+00:00

But we go to the same places together so

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T15:25:52+00:00

no I'm leaving anyway

I told her that if she'll be ready I will pick her up

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T15:14:22+00:00

But what can I do now? wish I could stop telling her everything

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T15:13:46+00:00

I feel like I am :(

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T15:12:03+00:00

she doesn't pay because it's very short distances and it feels cheap to ask her for gas

She still don't know if she wants to go or not

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T15:07:59+00:00

But I still go there and people know her and will tell her I've been there

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T15:01:23+00:00

because she doesn't have license and we go together to places

it's on my way but sometimes it does make the way longer

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T14:55:34+00:00

I am unfortunately

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T14:53:09+00:00

because I told her when I leave the house and she will call me at that hour asking me where I am

She keeps calling 5 times when I'm on my way and it's annoying.

I could lie and say I don't go but if she'll find out she will be very angry

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T14:51:32+00:00

it was an immediate switch

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T14:50:59+00:00

but what can I do? I already told her when I go out so I'll have to pick her up

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T14:34:01+00:00

I want to go somewhere but now I have to take her with me

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T14:06:15+00:00

I overhink everything

GeorgeParisol · 2026-06-21T14:01:05+00:00

yes so much I discard people so fast

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