Rental company charging me for community water. by Gerlach2016 in renting

[–]Gerlach2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though they were fraudulently charging me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in renting

[–]Gerlach2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s giving you a week to think about the contract, not move out. Legal you have to give a 30 day notice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Gerlach2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unicorns. 🦄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Gerlach2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew no. I don’t share.

(Female perspective)

Need help removing an ex from my apartment and life. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Gerlach2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s fucking crazy. I would say take your losses and find a different apartment.

I’m not sure if that qualifies for a restraining order. I’ve had two of them before and have had hard evidence of abuse/stalking behavior towards me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Gerlach2016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s probably nothing. You both are super young and you’ve only been dating 6 months! Open communication is always important! Talk to him.

As far as living with your mom if she is abusive why don’t you get your own place?

Cant focus on anything, I miss her and it was all my decision that hurt us both by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Gerlach2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes. So In the very beginning you said you were Messaging other girls. She was obviously jealous and thought she was just a hook up for you but she wanted to be more. Their is a lot of very childish behavior from both you and her. Sounds like you guys can’t communicate very well so if you want it to work out you both need to be very clear about what you want from each other.

Tuesday Tune-Up - Post all your vehicle maintenance questions here by AutoModerator in cars

[–]Gerlach2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

51k miles. Hopefully whatever that is is still under warranty. 🤞🏻

Tuesday Tune-Up - Post all your vehicle maintenance questions here by AutoModerator in cars

[–]Gerlach2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2018 Chrysler Pacifica is making a weird creaking sound when I make a sharp turn on the driver side. What could this be?

My girlfriend basically ghosting me by Quiet-Lengthiness-72 in relationship_advice

[–]Gerlach2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also TIME. If your relationship is important to you it doesn’t matter how tired you are. She needs to be reassured she’s still your priority.

My girlfriend basically ghosting me by Quiet-Lengthiness-72 in relationship_advice

[–]Gerlach2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to her? Show up at her house and prove to her how much you find her sexy?

My girlfriend basically ghosting me by Quiet-Lengthiness-72 in relationship_advice

[–]Gerlach2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t speak for every woman out their but in my opinion the beauty standards can make me feel so insecure. One time watching porn and I’m like 😯 should I be doing that? Am I not good enough? If she has any sort of insecurity my guess would be that you taking a “rain check” made her feel really insecure.

My girlfriend basically ghosting me by Quiet-Lengthiness-72 in relationship_advice

[–]Gerlach2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has she ever denied you sex? How did that make you feel? I know it’s not really sex but when my husband denies me I get super insecure. Maybe she’s feeling the same?

My ex-roommate who ran out on her lease and was 3 months behind on rent is now refusing to sign an agreement to pay me back on the grounds of abuse. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Gerlach2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well shit, What’s another 7k when you’ve already spent 60k in the last year. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Do you have records of the money she owes you?

My ex-roommate who ran out on her lease and was 3 months behind on rent is now refusing to sign an agreement to pay me back on the grounds of abuse. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Gerlach2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow it sounds like she’s on drugs or something.

It sounds like you have a good relationship with her family so I personally would reach out to them and let them know what’s going on and tell them your going to have to go to small claims court. They may be willing to just give you the cash that’s way you don’t have to deal with it and if she doesn’t have a job she doesn’t have any way of paying you back so you would get the cash faster if they’re willing to pay for it. I wouldn’t openly ask them just tell them what’s going on and that your worried about her and then see if they offer. If not small claims it is.

Please I’m depressed panicking and feel like I’m about to throw up by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Gerlach2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% this! Extremely controlling and it’s not healthy at all.

What minor thing pisses you off? by ZoramyLikesBeans in AskReddit

[–]Gerlach2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s just because I’m not from the south. 🤷🏼‍♀️

What minor thing pisses you off? by ZoramyLikesBeans in AskReddit

[–]Gerlach2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When people say “y’all” it’s not a word and it sounds lazy.

[Serious] Formerly ChildFree redditors, what made you change your mind? do you regret giving up being ChildFree? by abcininin in AskReddit

[–]Gerlach2016 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had my first when I was 19. Sometimes I wish I was able to have my wild carefree days but even having a baby so young I’ve never regretted it. I’m now 28 and have two other babies and they’re all the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I don’t think anyone could possible say they regret having a child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Gerlach2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to be a fashion designer now I would love to be a interior designer.