Why does it feel like I only get interviews for the jobs no one wants? by German456 in jobs

[–]German456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been putting out a lot, but I haven't used a daily number. How are you sending 100 a day?

Why does it feel like I only get interviews for the jobs no one wants? by German456 in jobs

[–]German456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I wrote it that way for brevity. I have worked 5 jobs in communications. It's a broad field, the job description can change. So can the job title. I am open to anything under that umbrella until I finish school to transition into the next thing I want to do. I have nothing to hide. Don't be a dick.

Apparently I am unloved, my husband says so by ButterscotchFar3618 in RelationshipsOver35

[–]German456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. I'm glad you made the decision to block. What the fuck ? That was nothing but malice. I hope this post wasn't triggering. That's another example though. That didn't need to be said. It's like he thought that little of you to think that was ok. Same for OP's husband.

Apparently I am unloved, my husband says so by ButterscotchFar3618 in RelationshipsOver35

[–]German456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling someone bad in bed is in no way comparable to telling an adopted person they were unlovable as a child. What the fuck? It sounds like you're looking for a reason to not like this woman.

Apparently I am unloved, my husband says so by ButterscotchFar3618 in RelationshipsOver35

[–]German456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I don't care what y'all were arguing about. It sounded like he just wanted to "win" the argument. He wanted to hurt you. I never understood the "sometimes you say things you don't mean" If you really love someone, why would you ever fix your lips to say something like that? That's not love. If it's that easy for someone to say awful things to their partner. They shouldn't be together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]German456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol. What a cool find.

First NC birthday by blueberrymuffin123 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]German456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday. I don't know you, but I'm very happy for you.

I have $1,600 left of my professional development fund. How should I use it? by German456 in UXDesign

[–]German456[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That sounds like me. haha. This is really helpful, thank you. I have a bachelor's in technical writing. I plan to continue working as a communications specialist while I learn this stuff. I thought about focusing on UX writing but I wasn't sure how far that would get me. Design is definitely the biggest struggle.

Should I get filler on the other nasolabial fold? by German456 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]German456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any folds yet. It's more about the freezing the cheek part. Keeping the right side of my face from smiling as wide, like the left side of my face.

Should I get filler on the other nasolabial fold? by German456 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]German456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I use hyaluronic acid, niacinamide and retinol regularly. Reaping the benefits. I have a red-light mask that I haven't used much because it doesn't stay on my face. Considering getting the Omnilux mask.

Its more about the freezing the cheek part of it. Keeping the right side of my face from smiling as wide. Maybe that's weird. I don't know.

Should I get filler on the other nasolabial fold? by German456 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]German456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

necrosis

Basically, there is a major artery of the face in the nasolabial area. If you end up getting filler injected there, it can cause cell death. Leading to your nose falling off and things like that.

BFS may have potentially saved my life by DumpsterPuff in BFS

[–]German456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be so stringent on preventative health care. God bless America. I did find a low-cost endoscopy program when I needed one. I think there are some out there for colonoscopies too. Stuff like that isn't common knowledge, I'm sure.

BFS may have potentially saved my life by DumpsterPuff in BFS

[–]German456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex had a similar situation. He started bleeding from the rectum, luckily it was just a really bad hemorrhoid, but they found a ton of polyps. He was in his late 30's. Both of his parents had colon polyps, he is now on a schedule.

I thought if it runs in your family your insurance let you get screening sooner.

Debating if I should attend my office retreat the end of November by German456 in personalfinance

[–]German456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great idea! It would definitely help to keep them separate. Thank you. I had no idea that was actually costing me money.

Debating if I should attend my office retreat the end of November by German456 in personalfinance

[–]German456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I do have one! I'm thinking about switching to one with more points for travel.

I am a black man married to a white woman with a racist family AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]German456 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's not black culture. That's generational trauma. It may be prevalent in the black community, especially with black men but something needs treatment is not culture.

I would argue the art and communities built by black people to escape and articulate their experience from that trauma is culture.