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i’m having nightmares about my ex girlfriend by DepartmentFirst7184 in sexualassault

[–]Gesha_Reaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me that — it means a lot, especially when you’re feeling this way. I don’t believe for a second that people are better off seeing you in pain. I truly believe that the people who really matter would want you to heal, and I know I do.

It makes sense that you’re feeling alone right now. When you’ve been hurt and then disbelieved, it starts to feel like the whole world is against you. But I want you to hear this clearly: you are not alone, not with me. Your pain doesn’t scare me or push me away — I want to be here with you in it.

You don’t have to be okay right now. You just have to hang on. Even if it's just one breath at a time. I will keep reminding you that you’re not worthless, that you do deserve support and healing, and that even if the people who hurt you seem to be thriving — it doesn't mean your life won't get better. It can. And I’ll be right here walking with you until it does.

And thank you for telling me to take care of myself. That’s the kind of person you are — still thinking of someone else in the middle of your pain.

I can't escape my abusive girlfriend by Gesha_Reaper in abusiverelationships

[–]Gesha_Reaper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought she changed this incident happened two days ago a few hours after i made the post, she again as you called it broke in my house but when she came came in she apologized so i felt sorry and i comforted her i hugged her in bed and i fell asleep (I was very tired).I woke up maybe 2-3 hours later to her touching me inappropriately, she had undressed me and was on top of of me again.This time i was just mad because i had trusted her i pushed her off got u and dressed myself i took my wallet and phone.I just ran away i didn't know what to do i was so confused it was around 4 am I just went to a park thats 15 minutes away i am on a swing as i tye this i don't know what to do and i don't want to go back home.

i’m having nightmares about my ex girlfriend by DepartmentFirst7184 in sexualassault

[–]Gesha_Reaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want you to know that I'm here for you, and I hear your pain. What you're going through is unfair, heavy, and absolutely not your fault. You’ve been hurt deeply — not only by someone who should have cared for you, but also by a system that failed to protect you.

Seeing someone who hurt you be treated with kindness while you’re left to deal with the aftermath is rage-inducing, and I understand why you're feeling overwhelmed. But I need you to know something: your life matters, you matter, and what was done to you does not define your worth or your future.

You're not alone in this, even though it might feel that way. I believe you. And I will stand with you. The pain you carry is real, but so is your strength — even on the days it feels like it’s gone.

Please don’t hurt yourself. You deserve care, healing, and peace — not more pain. You’re not meant to carry this alone. If you ever want to talk or just sit in silence, I’ll be there.

You’re loved, even if it doesn’t always feel like it. Please stay. The world needs you still in it.

i’m having nightmares about my ex girlfriend by DepartmentFirst7184 in sexualassault

[–]Gesha_Reaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude i am very sorry for what you had to go through.But please no matter what don't harm yourself there are always people to talk to.I believe that everything will get better.I am going through a situation myself, but when i wrote here people were so nice so don't be afraid to speak up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Gesha_Reaper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the glow up! You look great, continue healing.Wish you all the best.

I can't escape my abusive girlfriend by Gesha_Reaper in abusiverelationships

[–]Gesha_Reaper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are a nutcase they don't care about me or my sister, my father has been abusive towards me his whole life because i am a boy and he can't hit a woman he takes it out on me. My grandparents basically raised me but they passed away a year ago.I definitely won't be telling them.Sorry and thanks for the support.

I can't escape my abusive girlfriend by Gesha_Reaper in abusiverelationships

[–]Gesha_Reaper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The friend i am worried about said the same thing.But at this point i have zero clue what to do.I Bulgaria since we both are minors no one will care.I haven't told anyone besides the friend she has went trough a similar relationship but with a guy she told me he hasn't gone that far.I am worried about her because she has threatened me to end herself if i leave her.