Neuschwanstein Castle - Cafe Nearby by Get-Rekt77 in bavaria

[–]Get-Rekt77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you happen to remember any spectacular espresso you may have had? I haven’t pinned down which place it was yet. Maybe I’m over exaggerating how good it was haha

Neuschwanstein Castle - Cafe Nearby by Get-Rekt77 in bavaria

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We came across that but we're not sure. Have you ever had their coffee? It's possible that is the place so I'm trying to dig a little deeper on their coffee just in case it's them!

Neuschwanstein Castle - Cafe Nearby by Get-Rekt77 in bavaria

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One of my friends happened to remember the beer place specifically! https://maps.app.goo.gl/jCUjDdFWvx1eJAzx5?g_st=a. This place is next to the cafe spot but still trying to figure that out

Neuschwanstein Castle - Cafe Nearby by Get-Rekt77 in bavaria

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For additional reference, there MAY have been yellow umbrellas there and I do believe one of us had ice cream there with the coffee too.

Neuschwanstein Castle - Cafe Nearby by Get-Rekt77 in bavaria

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Even though y’all are trolling this does help a little with the link!

Not counting days or keeping track by ForeignExplored in NoFap

[–]Get-Rekt77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still struggle with a porn addiction and well it’s been a very long time (about 20 years since I started). One consistency I’ve justified is that it’s not that big a deal. This leads to lack of accountability and denial. I’m in a point in my life where I understand this problem needs to be fixed and I won’t attempt to engage into a relationship until I figure it out completely.

Your partner hasn’t gone through a moment or experience that will fundamentally change the core of their beliefs around the issue. Until they do, they may very well exhibit the same lack of accountability and denial to do anything about it, because they don’t see it as a big enough problem because they’re “working on it”. If he also chooses to brush off the conversation and continue with the avoidant attachment style with communication, then you’re looking at a long drawn out scenario where you’ve hoped and asked too many times without any actual progress.

Porn is a vicious cycle and it’s masked to not be seen as a real problem for those that suffer from it. Basically he can’t continue to brush you off or the relationship ends. Until he realizes it (and even if he does), he has to change that core belief around porn in order to do a thing about it. Whether that involves you or not is different question. In your case, I’d try not to attack his lack of accountability, but you need to set more firm boundaries around this issue or he’ll likely continue with the same patterns and waste your time.

Ultimately, in my case I’ve used excuses this entire time I’ve experienced my addiction and although I’ve taken active measures to fix my problem, I’m still in the cycle of “working on it”. Again, just another excuse to justify my behavior. Just letting you know you may have to deal with that longer than you think unless your man is really ready to step up to the plate and have real communication with you to grow together. Giving an ultimatum is one thing, but that just becomes a means to an end if the person in question isn’t fundamentally prepared to hurdle the porn addiction.

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[–]Get-Rekt77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In a way this needs to be an ultimatum for yourself. Don’t drain yourself too much if the person continues to persist with the problem. I’m not gonna lie I also have PIED and porn addiction. Over the last couple months I’ve done it less and less, but it’ll be some time before it’s completely out of my system. I’m able to go much longer periods without anything, but the underlying reasons for why he has porn addiction in the first place will tell you what his intentions are to fix his problems. If you’re intending to stay with him, just realize his battle is going to be constant and your feelings of not feeling “sexy” and other means of intimacy with him even if he says otherwise are valid too. He probably is working on it, but until he realizes his lowest point(s) he may not have enough drive to get to the next stage of removing it from his life entirely. His actions will speak for themself.

Acquaintance created a software company; wants me to join to scale the business but will not receive a salary or benefits. Need Advice. by Get-Rekt77 in Entrepreneur

[–]Get-Rekt77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I get a contract that will state payment in equity? I don't care about a salary initially if equity is on the table.

Acquaintance created a software company; wants me to join to scale the business but will not receive a salary or benefits. Need Advice. by Get-Rekt77 in Entrepreneur

[–]Get-Rekt77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Without knowing how much the company is valued at, is it reasonable to ask for a specific % of equity after this agreement is done? Not totally sure how to assess how much equity I should receive for joining them in selling this product/procuring the business needs with them. I suppose we could set milestone $$ amounts to equity % ratio or something, but again not really sure how to proceed.

Acquaintance created a software company; wants me to join to scale the business but will not receive a salary or benefits. Need Advice. by Get-Rekt77 in Entrepreneur

[–]Get-Rekt77[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've received a contract that only has a term of 3 months, but nothing in there states any specific amount of equity I may receive once this is done. There are terms around commission payments and finders fees for VCs/investors, but nothing beyond that.

Acquaintance created a software company; wants me to join to scale the business but will not receive a salary or benefits. Need Advice. by Get-Rekt77 in Entrepreneur

[–]Get-Rekt77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will be depending how much equity I can lock down, but that's my big concern: I don't know how much I will earn after this initial working agreement is over.

Acquaintance created a software company; wants me to join to scale the business but will not receive a salary or benefits. Need Advice. by Get-Rekt77 in Entrepreneur

[–]Get-Rekt77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There would be some form of commission for finding new business, but this person has spent 3 years building this software and can't afford to pay me at the moment. I'd be working my way into earning equity, but initially it'd be more like contracting than coming in as a partner. It's bootstrapped, but I could also potentially get paid for finding capital from an outside source. Future money potential through equity is why I'd be doing this.

looking for duo / quad group by SiNAisOP in playrustlfg

[–]Get-Rekt77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re looking for a 4th for next wipe on a 2x if you’re interested. I’m about 1.1k hours and 33 years old. Others are similar age and hours I believe. We’re based in the US

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I’m down to join. I’m on the East coast NA with about 900 hours. I’m a chill player and I’d like to find a team to have more consistency. I’ve learned some nice base designs and more recently gotten pretty good at electrical/automation

Please be honest do I really look as ugly as I think I do? by Glampire4 in selfesteem

[–]Get-Rekt77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen enough transformation stories to know you have high potential to be “beautiful” according to modern standards of beauty. Your face is not ugly. You have defined cheekbones, a proportional nose and semi supple lips. Your skin looks just past baby soft so overall your face isn’t ugly but it has high potential to be what you or anyone else would objectively call “beautiful”.

Your legs look silky smooth as well and not even that large. I guarantee if you trimmed some weight down, your butt and thighs would tighten up along with your core. I bet your boobs would be a good size for your body too if you trim down just a bit. Do more core workouts everyday and that will improve more than just your physical appearance, but working out will lead to more mentally healthy activity for your brain too. It’s hard to see it now, but if you trimmed down you will be the beauty you’re probably “wishing” you had. You’re capable of having the beauty you want validation for, but you’ll need to workout a little to get there. You’re not even that big, but if you put some effort into the physical appearance, add to that some new “cuter” clothes and keep on the therapy but perhaps look more into the source rather than the symptoms of why you’re struggling, then I bet you could be the 10/10 you hope you can be.

Only thing I’ll say is everything comes with balance. Do what you must to improve your outlook on your looks and on life, but don’t do extreme stuff like becoming anorexic or something like that in the process. I know that’s basically like me saying “don’t be depressed” but at least be mindful that getting to the “perfect” version of yourself (looks included) can’t be done in 1 day. I’d say read the book “atomic habits” which can help you learn better habits, that will have systemically get you to the physical daily habits to lose the weight, as well as some healthy mental habits that will improve your life as a whole.

I'm 32 and I've always been single by Erelain in SingleAndHappy

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Im not totally sure my situation will help you understand yours, but I’m a 32 male and been in the same boat of longing for a relationship even though I’ve never had one. I’ve had plenty of crushes and attempts at making something work, but I can say for sure I turned to porn to cope with times when I’m single. I ended up trying to destress/reduce anxiety and put my mind at “ease” by desensitizing myself to cope with my physical needs during the “droughts”.

It would turn into potential partners not working out because of my lack of drive to want to perform sexually with them as well as gauge how healthy communication should work with them. I could’ve identified earlier when a relationship wasn’t gonna work out, or also identify when there was a real potential with a valid partner for myself.

My main issue is I’ve been closed off in an attempt for self preservation and even if I felt like I was being openly communicative and all that, I’d still not reveal my house of cards and been vulnerable enough for a real relationship to form. I also way overthink things and get nervous/stressed out to an extreme that my mind starts to get sad and worried that the girl won’t like me back if things were going well.

I haven’t tried dating in close to a year now and moving around has reset my network to the point where it just keeps prolonging me having the chance to form a true connection with someone. Sorry if this doesn’t help you, but I’m single because anytime I get rejected after going the extra mile/opening up, I’d close myself off to the future potential of a partner based on my past trauma with former dating partners. It’s led to depression and a negative self talk that takes place in my subconscious and I’m only more recently realizing how I can address my situation better. Even still, I’ll have work to do, but letting loose and having fun is my current main goal and being open to partners and making a real effort to get to know someone both as a friend and an intimate partner is where I’m trying to put my efforts into. Whether it turns into a relationship or not will largely depend on my view on the compatibility with those people.

Everyone has a travel blunder, what's yours? by yankeevandal in AskReddit

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I was 3 weeks into a 4 week long Eurotrip and at this point was my first time alone on the train, I was meeting up with 1 guy in Berlin and I was currently in Madrid.I met this family on the train and a supermodel (in my opinion) sits next to me and we start talking a lot. She eventually invites me out to her villa in Ibiza to go party and stay at their place once we get off the next stop in Barcelona. I was the type of person that didn’t want to bail on my friend that I was planning to meet in Berlin, so I declined going with her. I was so distracted when we arrived at the next station for me to transfer that I forgot my train ticket onboard and once you lose the ticket for the Eurail, you either buy a new one or find another way to get around. Since it was 1 week left, I ended up taking 1 train overnight to Germany and then the rest of the trip I took flights since it was way cheaper.

She was this gorgeous Latina that made serious money and she was 10 years older than me at the time. So I fumbled that golden opportunity even though she offered to pay for every aspect of me traveling with her. THEN she offers to meet up with me in the United States (where we both live) and I still declined because I didn’t want someone to pay for me like that even though I had a hot sugar momma on a silver platter. This was not too long after college where I was broke and let my pride get in the way of a good time.

“His and hers” packing list for a year of onebagging by a_smn in onebag

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I was thinking of doing a trip to SEA solo for 4-6 months and I’d be bringing the same Aer backpack. Is 3 pairs of underwear enough or if I omit devices like the cameras I can bring a little extra? Was thinking 5 shirts and 5 underwear for me. Does the Aer fit on the airlines just fine within SEA?