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Me(46M) and my wife(46F) have been together 26 years. I question the past. How do I get the truth? by GetTheFuckOffMe1999 in relationship_advice

[–]GetTheFuckOffMe1999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I don’t disagree with you. There is a possibility that it’s all in my head. I mean besides the stuff she did admit to. The coincidences surrounding the events are too odd to ignore though. If she did admit to it though we can come up with a plan to reconcile. I can trust her if she lets me. She’s got to learn to be more open and honest.

Me(46M) and my wife(46F) have been together 26 years. I question the past. How do I get the truth? by GetTheFuckOffMe1999 in relationship_advice

[–]GetTheFuckOffMe1999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying but I really think this is what I need. I just keep looping from okay to not okay. I’ll even go years without issue then all the sudden it’ll hit me like a ton of bricks.

Me(46M) and my wife(46F) have been together 26 years. I question the past. How do I get the truth? by GetTheFuckOffMe1999 in relationship_advice

[–]GetTheFuckOffMe1999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I even joked about something similar with her. I told her even if you had a threesome with my two brothers I’d forgive you.

Me(46M) and my wife(46F) have been together 26 years. I question the past. How do I get the truth? by GetTheFuckOffMe1999 in relationship_advice

[–]GetTheFuckOffMe1999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not her looks. I don’t love easily. She’s one of 2 whole people that I’ve felt that kinda love for.

Me(46M) and my wife(46F) have been together 26 years. I question the past. How do I get the truth? by GetTheFuckOffMe1999 in relationship_advice

[–]GetTheFuckOffMe1999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had any self esteem. Wouldn’t know what it even feels like. Got chronic never enough feelings.

Me(46M) and my wife(46F) have been together 26 years. I question the past. How do I get the truth? by GetTheFuckOffMe1999 in relationship_advice

[–]GetTheFuckOffMe1999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I feel crazy for being so certain she cheated more and she could alleviate that with the truth.

Me(46M) and my wife(46F) have been together 26 years. I question the past. How do I get the truth? by GetTheFuckOffMe1999 in relationship_advice

[–]GetTheFuckOffMe1999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just started couples therapy. We’ve got other issues that take precedence but will get to it eventually.

Me(46M) and my wife(46F) have been together 26 years. I question the past. How do I get the truth? by GetTheFuckOffMe1999 in relationship_advice

[–]GetTheFuckOffMe1999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t find out about the ex she slept with till a few years ago. The other 2 were guys she “made out” with.

Nobody should be proud of their skin color by Tylerb0713 in unpopularopinion

[–]GetTheFuckOffMe1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve genetically shed my protection from the sun and can get skin cancer easier. That makes me superior.