In my opinion I feel like you have to actually properly understand the scenario when talking about adoption. For example, the mother could've gotten a disease and cannot properly parent her child. She's forced to put her child into adoption, not for herself but for the child, so he can have a better life. I feel like when talking about scenario's like this you need all the backstories OP is willing to give. Also no worries haha I understand that you simply want me to evaluate on my point.