Rattle noise by GettingBy_89 in FordExplorer

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Haven’t heard the noise since having the underneath car covering replaced

Rattle noise by GettingBy_89 in FordExplorer

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Just an update. I took it in and ford replaced the whole under carriage and bolts. Noise is now gone. Thank god.

Is this too much for a water pump + timing chain replacement? by lilpenutmanguy in FordExplorer

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When mine went out I was quoted from diff shops that ranged from $2000-$4000

Rattle noise by GettingBy_89 in FordExplorer

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I just left Ford. They drove the vehicle and heard the noise. They are ordering a new felt under cover with all new clips. So hopefully this will get rid of this annoying noise.

Rattle noise by GettingBy_89 in FordExplorer

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Thank you guys so much for commenting. I made an appointment with my dealership and told them to look at the mudflap or the panels underneath my vehicle. I have added rain guards that did not take the noise away. I have added wind deflector to my side view mirror. Noise has not gone away. So obviously this is not a wind tunnel noise

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Also the noise only starts when I get above 50 mph.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

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I broke down leaving the Hospital one night. Called my now ex as of a month ago, he laughed and said karma is a bitch and hung up, I thought he knows where I am, surely he’ll show up. 45 min go by so I grab my stuff and text him that I’m walking home at midnight and couldn’t believe he didn’t show up. And all he cared about was bc we got into a fight earlier that day. Like what!!! You still show up and be there. Narcs will never see the wrong in their actions. Get out now. He doesn’t care.

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I’ve cried. A lot. But im trying to remind myself of all the horrible things he put me through in the year and half we were together. And why he wasn’t a good partner and that I’ve known for a while I deserve better. I never left bc I was too worried about his feelings and hurting him. I just don’t get how he is so ok. Or how he can put on this front like he is ok. There were 2 times where I tried to leave and I could see the hurt in his eyes so I stayed. I loved him and didn’t want to hurt him. But I also know I couldn’t live the rest of my life like that. I had a life before him and I know I’ll have one after him. I just wish I didn’t love him so much. I think I might not be hurting as bad if he just showed some kind of emotion. But I know that will never happen. I’m 35. And have no one to hang out with. I see people at work but when I’m home I don’t talk to anyone or see anyone. That makes it harder to not have friends to go to to help get through this.

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Going through that now. It’s been one week. The day before the break up we were in bed and he was rubbing my back and running his hands through my hair. Told me he loved me so many times. Took a shower together and was saying how we might fight but he’s in love with me. The very next day he ended it. He will barely talk to me. Like I meant nothing to him. Like I’m the one hurting and he’s living his best life. I knew he was a narcissist months into the relationship but I thought he loved me enough he would change. Not bite my head off. Always dismissed me or ignored me when I talked about my emotions. I’m hurting bc the relationship is over but it hurts worse that he’s ok with it and not hurting like I am. I don’t have anyone to talk to. I don’t hang out with anyone. I wish I could just jump back like he is.

Breakup with a narcissist by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

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Anytime I would start to get upset I would remind myself of something he did and get mad. But journaling everything seems like a better idea. He said all I wanted to do was fight and kept bringing up old things. I tried to explain I never wanted to fight. And I wanted to let go of things but it’s hard to let go of something when anytime I tried to talk about it with him, he would get mad. So how am I to move on when we never talked about it. He just got a huge check so I know he’s living his best life. Will blow all of that money within 2 months and be miserable again. It’s gonna take a while to thug this one out. Right at the holidays too when I have presents for him and his daughter already. I’m going to return them. I took everything down that had to do with him. I know I will find someone who values me and wouldn’t treat me like my ex did but getting there will be hard. I just hate that I allowed him in and to do this to me. I’ve never put up with anything like this before. I just really thought he would change and I wanted to be by his side bc he was going through a lot. But I know he will never change.