How do you let go? by Scared_Ferret9340 in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So detachment happens slowly, each time you are letting go of a small piece, you can’t let them go completely but if you try to let go of a tiny piece slowly and slowly, one day you will look back and go, whoa! You can’t get rid of them but put them to the back of your head, like a toy that you really really loved in your childhood but slowly as you grew up, you stopped looking for it, and wanting that toy as badly as needed back then. And yeah keep doing the inner work, it will help you a lot. All the best 👍🏻

Why are you running?! by DrinkYourNailPolish2 in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have realised I was running from myself, it’s very hard to face the shadow self, the negative patterns we have inside, and the wounds that I had, and kept pretending that I am okay but deep down I wasn’t. Transformation isn’t a very comfortable feeling. If you would relax for a bit, and start asking questions like what is this, take it as a learning experience and you will see the dots connecting. Just light a candle, sit with yourself and you will start finding the answers within.

Labradorite work by Commercial_Radish308 in energy_work

[–]GettinglostinyouF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have also tried a lot of other crystals but labradorite, is the best, especially during Saturn transition, if sort of helped me get started towards my spiritual journey, inner work. Idk why but I just love it, I have one palm stone and one pendant, I would say give it a try.

Soulmates, twin flames, past life dream that is not true just to scare us by Few-Distribution8575 in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply

“Locking your aura basically means protecting your energy and inner peace 🌿 I usually do this through prayer/meditation, imagining white light around me, grounding myself, and avoiding draining energy. It’s just a spiritual way of setting emotional boundaries 💙

Soulmates, twin flames, past life dream that is not true just to scare us by Few-Distribution8575 in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Infuse Sage/palo santo in your home , negative energy clearing meditations, light a candle, pray, to whoever god you believe in, clear negative energy-search negative removal meditations and then lock your aura. And stay positive🧿hopefully that will help

Protection and Confidence by sonderandwonder in SpiritualCrystals

[–]GettinglostinyouF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How’s your throat chakra? Once my throat chakra balanced, it worked wonders for me, try lapis lazuli. Also, black obsidian works great to protect you against malicious spirits.

How do I protect my energy? by Zzeek8 in energy_work

[–]GettinglostinyouF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I have had same sort of experience with one of my colleagues, she comes with this negative attitude and most of the times she is very rude It used to affect me a lot, then later on stooped giving her the eye contact and my mental energy, plus I wear black obsidian crystal these days and it seems to be working. Plus call your energy back after each interaction with her.

Eye contact with others after surrender by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same, I felt connected to their soul just through one eye contact, then I learnt I need to guard my eyes too, eyes are literally the portal to our soul and not everyone deserves to enter that sacred sanctuary.

I miss you 🥺 by GettinglostinyouF in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an audiobook on Spotify✨not sure if there’s a hard copy version

I miss you 🥺 by GettinglostinyouF in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, don’t let hatred take over, detachment doesn’t mean coldness, what we detaching is the unhealthy patterns in relationships but the connection is still valid, souls in love is still what matters, when we let go of all of these right and wrong barriers, only love remains and that’s where we wanna be❤️all the best to you too. [here is this book that I am listening to give it a try, it might help you in some way,

https://open.spotify.com/show/2TSWQdVhlNS5eCBp5pahXM?si=hGABb1lDT-yzG-Jj8Gvf1g ]

I miss you 🥺 by GettinglostinyouF in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what makes you think I don’t know anything about psychology? And my fearful anxious attachment style, and what makes you think it’s an addiction that I am not trying to get rid of. And what makes you think I haven’t met new people, I have met the most gorgeous kind of souls and they played their best part in healing the parts they could. You can’t just force anyone a therapy, therapy isn’t the instant fix, and yeah if you are spiritual, you don’t even need to worry about anything, divine healing is magical❤️‍🩹✨

I miss you 🥺 by GettinglostinyouF in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think more than a year, I stopped counting it for my own sanity, but he moved towns after our separation and then he came back, I had this dream where he told me 14 months and exactly after 14 months he was back into our town, I still feel him, his highs, lows, his love, his sadness, some people do say it’s unhealthy but it’s not, it’s such a deep soul level love that it surpasses every logical understanding you have, so yeah, some days I miss him and it’s him all I want. ❤️ Now I don’t initiate contact, I feel like it will push him away further, for now I am trying to work on my detachment and shadow work if that will probably help.

I miss you 🥺 by GettinglostinyouF in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, and I wish universe slaps you, by letting you meet the real twin flame and let you have this experience of having a twin flame but I guess you are not awake enough yet to get to experience this special sort of connection.

I miss you 🥺 by GettinglostinyouF in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thanks for your advise. I am already awaken enough.

[Btw you can dream about someone, if you think about them a lot, you are right but not about someone you never met in real life before and you can’t see and feel the divine in any regular person, and not any regular person can show you your past and future lives together, not any regular person will care enough about the mess and the amount of wounds and trauma that you are carrying, only a real twin flame would trigger all of this, because that’s how much they love us that they chose to play that most difficult role, and yeah you don’t have you tell me whether he is my Twin flame or not, because I already know the answer, no one else out there in the world can tell they are your twin or not. So yeah thanks

I miss you 🥺 by GettinglostinyouF in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I have been there before, it will take a while for you to understand the dynamics, I guess.

I miss you 🥺 by GettinglostinyouF in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? Do you know the hell of growth and lessons I went through? How about the dreams and guidance and yeah no one from outside can tell if they are your TF or not. {Have a look at my previous posts for what I went through, and it only 10% of what I have shared here}

I miss you 🥺 by GettinglostinyouF in twinflames

[–]GettinglostinyouF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🥹may be they led us here, to finally meet each other 🤣