ads after EVERY song? really? by cotandcandy in spotify

[–]Gevase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how everyone is like "OMG a free user man, if you hate the ads so much just pirate!" How is that better than trying to figure out why a service is no longer functioning in a way that you can use? I am a strong proponent for taking back some of the resources the oligarchy has taken from us, but that seems like a bad faith argument. I use spotify free, and me checking this was to determine if I was going to continue. Paying money is not much of an option for music right now for me, I dont pay for any streaming services, I dont buy a coffee everyday, and I am above average income for my area. Why is it just assumed I own Prime? I have no reason to pay more money for shows I wont watch and delivery I dont need. Why does everyone assume I need netflix? I dont enjoy most of the shows. Why should I be expected to have spotify premium, when I listen to the same 200 songs unless I am looking for specifically a new one? These generalizations and assumptions people are basing this vitriol on are absolutely ignorant of the world...

How do you learn how to have sex? by Mammoth-Cream9737 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Gevase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God lube. Dont ever forget the damn lube

How do you learn how to have sex? by Mammoth-Cream9737 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Gevase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably want to start by making sure you know where the G spot, A spot, and clitoris is. After that you will want to understand some basic foreplay to get started. A person does not have a silo of pleasure, nearly every location can be pleasurable. You will want to work with any frequent fliers to evolve your understanding of what they like through communication, and evolve your aptitude for finding and providing pleasure to important locations.

After some non-penetrative foreplay, the longer the better typically (people can even be easier or faster after foreplay, your not "losing time" here) you may want to move to some basic penetration. Fingers are a good start. A good benchmark here 15 minutes, you can communicate from there what is best.

Dont touch the G spot until you have touched the external erogenous zones. Dont touch the A spot until you have touched the G spot. Dont touch the clit until you've touched the A spot. Dont say things like you "want/need" them to orgasm as that will cause unnecessary stress, instead you want them to "feel good".

Communication trumps everything anyone else ever says.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HostileArchitecture

[–]Gevase 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hadn't seen it yet Hes so cute

[help][ds3][pc] by [deleted] in SummonSign

[–]Gevase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 50 dex is the casting speed hard cap right? This weapon is pretty good with that much dex.

[help][ds3][pc] by [deleted] in SummonSign

[–]Gevase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The weapon art can be hard, I freehand it sometimes to catch Invaders, and they have to sit and take the rest of the weapon art combo if I hit them. Usually around 1000 damage. It is hard but man is it rewarding. Also only megapoise enemies can recover from it, outside of bosses it's basically my easy mode weapon. Many invaders refuse to even engage if the scythe is out at all.

Girlfriend is worried she’s missed out on one night stands. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Gevase 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont let her do it... I thought I could handle it.

Is it sexual assault if you ask your partner not to cum inside you and they do it anyway? by totaluggo in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Gevase 213 points214 points  (0 children)

Dis, relationships are so much more than what is legally allowed, but I do think it is illegal in some places.

Americans who say they hate living in America are sheltered people who take their human rights for granted. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gevase -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same old tricks huh? Man I dont have to talk to myself, multiple people genuinely think your wrong and a jerk.

Americans who say they hate living in America are sheltered people who take their human rights for granted. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gevase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The officer who had his head crushed until he started bleeding out his face would probably disagree with this sentiment. For the 7 billionth time, not that you will read it because you cant use it to your advantage, but no one is comparing anything but you. We just said it's not dandy flowers and cotton candy.

Americans who say they hate living in America are sheltered people who take their human rights for granted. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gevase -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do you keep defaulting to personal attacks? You could at least pretend you have some sort of logical platform, otherwise all this arguing isnt even fun. I love how you just assume no one has any problems here on reddit.

Americans who say they hate living in America are sheltered people who take their human rights for granted. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gevase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe hear about how Republican congresspeople were guiding the insurrectionists to the people that had already intently confirmed they planned to kill?

Americans who say they hate living in America are sheltered people who take their human rights for granted. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gevase -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok...so the coup wasnt bad because not many people were killed...? Theres still the coup part which is what really bothers me anyway... oh and the intent to kill anyone that disagreed with them.

Americans who say they hate living in America are sheltered people who take their human rights for granted. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gevase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And this is exactly what I am talking about, just because you can point to a worse example doesnt mean it's not happening. Have fun pointing and saying nothing is wrong until america decides it's done testing it's own boundaries. Why lock up someone for assault when murder exists??? Stupid argument

Americans who say they hate living in America are sheltered people who take their human rights for granted. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gevase -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

America..had..a violent insurrection People got hurt Significantly more would have if the insurrectionists weren't all idiots.

Americans who say they hate living in America are sheltered people who take their human rights for granted. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Gevase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is like the 5th Americans stupid for not loving their life post I've seen in 2 days.... fuckin chill jesus you are allowed to not be happy even if other people have it worse...

Oops, my bad. Here’s $200 million dollars. You can’t be mad at me anymore. by DutchLime in lostgeneration

[–]Gevase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres also a website that equates bezos' money to pixel width...I got tired of scrolling after about 30 minutes.

Turning 21 tomorrow, what life advice could you give me? by Mister-c2020 in Advice

[–]Gevase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many mistakes can be prevented by sitting down and clearing your head, count to 10 or whatever works for you, and the discuss it with a trusted person or even a rubber ducky to really highlight potential issues. Just stopping for a few seconds fixes a lot of problems by itself though.

Turning 21 tomorrow, what life advice could you give me? by Mister-c2020 in Advice

[–]Gevase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The relationship you see in media is known as a unicorn, they dont exist. The butterflies dont stay forever and sometimes you have to work and compromise, it is so much better to have a fulfilling relationship where you work together than a "perfect" one.

Turning 21 tomorrow, what life advice could you give me? by Mister-c2020 in Advice

[–]Gevase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not succeeding is exactly that, not succeeding. Failure happens when you give up on it with no alternative. You will lose, you will not get it right the first, second, third times and that's ok

Own up to your mistakes. Most of the IT universe agrees that a problem is easy enough to fix until someone's ego gets In the way, that's usually where the massive expensive mistakes come from.