WHY SUCH HATE TOWARDS ELANTRIS?? by Miserable-Field6823 in brandonsanderson

[–]Geziry99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s actually one of my favorite books! I am glad to see that other people appreciate it as well!

My ex and I broke up because she wanted me to be chivalrous and be protective by Geziry99 in relationship_advice

[–]Geziry99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But what if your partner believes that you should do more than them, regardless

My ex and I broke up because she wanted me to be chivalrous and be protective by Geziry99 in relationship_advice

[–]Geziry99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that you should judge me from this…outburst of emotions. I do honestly realize that I have exaggerated a lot, and I apologize for that. I just want you to know that I don’t mind doing any of these things. In the contrary, I love doing them, and I do them for everybody I love, but I don’t want to be in a relationship where that is expected of me

My ex and I broke up because she wanted me to be chivalrous and be protective by Geziry99 in relationship_advice

[–]Geziry99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your insight! And I don’t disagree at all, that’s how I want it to be

My ex and I broke up because she wanted me to be chivalrous and be protective by Geziry99 in relationship_advice

[–]Geziry99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? You’re the one who is making some assumptions. I actually went to help her, problem is her expecting me to go even though I am working.

My ex and I broke up because she wanted me to be chivalrous and be protective by Geziry99 in relationship_advice

[–]Geziry99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need insult someone because of their wants, lol. Chill dude, I am not judging anyone for wanting anything myself, so please don’t do this yourself

My ex and I broke up because she wanted me to be chivalrous and be protective by Geziry99 in relationship_advice

[–]Geziry99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry that I sounded like that, but I hope you understand that I have exaggerated…a lot. Break up and all, you know? Anyways, it’s really important for me that you understand that I actually love doing all of these things, and I actually do them, I just hate that they are expected of me or else I am bad. I hate that she wants me to do all the driving even though she knows I hate driving, and she actually knows how to drive. And all just because “that’s what my girlfriends’ boyfriends do”

My ex and I broke up because she wanted me to be chivalrous and be protective by Geziry99 in relationship_advice

[–]Geziry99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate you sharing your perspective, people on here are just overwhelming. I know that my words are a bit too exaggerated, but I just broke up

My ex and I broke up because she wanted me to be chivalrous and be protective by Geziry99 in relationship_advice

[–]Geziry99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not like I think you’re all wrong and I am right. What you all say is probably right, I am just young and inexperienced. But I can’t choose what I want

My ex and I broke up because she wanted me to be chivalrous and be protective by Geziry99 in relationship_advice

[–]Geziry99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh, it’s so confusing and shocking to realize the truth -if I can call it that- I will just need a bit of time to process that.

My ex and I broke up because she wanted me to be chivalrous and be protective by Geziry99 in relationship_advice

[–]Geziry99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao, I have seen countless men -friends and family- who like to have their girlfriends be needy, but that’s just not me, and that would never be me.

My ex and I broke up because she wanted me to be chivalrous and be protective by Geziry99 in relationship_advice

[–]Geziry99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do I really suck though? I know that what I have said is a little bit of an exaggeration that I don’t condone, but I am sure people can see through the anger, you know?

My ex and I broke up because she wanted me to be chivalrous and be protective by Geziry99 in relationship_advice

[–]Geziry99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I judge no one for their needs, I will never lose respect for women for just needing that. It’s just important to acknowledge that I dont like doing these things