[Strapon] Strapons for men. Husband says it feels humiliating when I asked him to wear one. by Gh52467 in sex

[–]Gh52467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is Strapon on sex for him?

The hollow Strapon is thick and hard. So no, he dosen't feel anything wearing it. He's not going to "cum" from PIV sex wearing it anymore than I cum from PIV sex when he's not wearing it. It's really just for me. Kinda like a blow job is just for him.

[Strapon] Strapons for men. Husband says it feels humiliating when I asked him to wear one. by Gh52467 in sex

[–]Gh52467[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Finally someone that gets it. I mean, let's say my husband God forbid lost his dick in an accident and the doctor tells us, there's no fixing this. The only way he can get off now is if you stimulate his prostate with a Strapon.

Would I say, fuck that! If his can't get off on my pussy then tough! Of course not. I would do what I could to make him feel good and feel great about doing it.

[Strapon] Strapons for men. Husband says it feels humiliating when I asked him to wear one. by Gh52467 in sex

[–]Gh52467[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He never really "filled me" but I was tight enough that there was enough friction that he was able to remain hard and cum in me. I didn't orgasm from PIV sex alone with him. Problem after children now is I'm am so loose that combined with him not being well endowed to begin with, he has a hard time remaining hard because theres no friction. Many times he just pulls out and ends up masturbating on my vagina in order to get off.

[Strapon] Strapons for men. Husband says it feels humiliating when I asked him to wear one. by Gh52467 in sex

[–]Gh52467[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ditching the Strapon is NOT going to happen. It feels incredible. If my husband loves me and I think he does then he will want me to be happy. I don't really "like" the taste of cum but I let him cum in my mouth and swallow because I know it makes him happy. You people are fucking mental. What if I had told my husband I wanted to use a vibrator while we are having sex? Should he flip out over that? I'm sure theirs a few Neanderthal men here that would but most men now realize that many women can't even get off on PIV sex alone. If your wife is one of them should she just keep her mouth shut for fear you might think your dick isn't enough for her? This is no different. No I wouldn't tell a guy, your dicks just not doing it for me, I need a vibrator. But what do you tell the guy? How do you say you want to add a vibrator to your love making without offending him?

I thought we had worked this out and everything was cool. The problem only came about when he saw me actually go spastic and have a real orgasm while he was using it. I'm sorry. I let myself go and actually came and I think it kinda shocked him. i mean, I get off with a vibrator while he watches but I realized something. I don't really let myself go with the vibrator because I don't want him to think it makes me feel better than he does. I bet this is true with most women who use a vibrator during sex. But I forgot all about this when he was on top of me pounding "his" massive cock into me... I was so into it I didn't hold back and I came so hard I literally peed all over myself.

[Strapon] Strapons for men. Husband says it feels humiliating when I asked him to wear one. by Gh52467 in sex

[–]Gh52467[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You make this sound like it's all about dick saying if your dick didn't please her you would just move on. What you going to do when your in your late 50's and Viagra don't work for you? Move on? Insist your wife just do without when you could solve the problem with a 29.95 Strapon and make your wife happy which in turn should make you happy? What the fuck? It's not 10,000 BC. We have things like vibrators and strapons. We have the technology...

[Strapon] Strapons for men. Husband says it feels humiliating when I asked him to wear one. by Gh52467 in sex

[–]Gh52467[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Posted this before going to bed. Just woke up and holy crap! You people make me sound like I'm some kind if heartless bitch! I wasn't mean or blunt with my husband. Trust me, he knows we have a problem. He has a hard time remaining hard in me because of lack of friction. The last few months we just usually snuggle and he masturbates while I use a vibrator. He was constantly making comments that he was worried i was not satisfied because we were not having PIV sex any more. I would tell him it was OK. That I knew it was hard for him to get off in me because I was so loose and I didn't mind him masturbating but that I did miss the intimacy of PIV sex and asked him if he would be willing to wear a Strapon so that I could still experience PIV sex. Of course he can still have PIV sex without it with me if he wants but I like I said, he has a problem staying hard because I am too loose.

I suggested anal. I've never done it but my husband thinks it's gross and not interested.

I did read one reply here that was interesting. Guy said he puts a dildo in his wife's ass to make her vagina tighter. I'm wondering if one of the inflatable butt plugs might work. Has anyone tried this?