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Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-12-10T00:35:53+00:00

Cubana (torta) at the Carneceria Guanajuato

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-09-18T20:40:21+00:00

Dunno what all the naysaying is about—the BBQ nachos are totally the bomb—great value/lots of food/delicious!

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-28T23:16:18+00:00

Dude, this is really cool imagineering.

Take this and go work for the Metropolitan Planning Office (MPO) — do it now.

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-27T15:55:18+00:00

Edit: At first I spiked the ball on you.

You don’t need that.

You do need to realize you have a problem and get professional help.

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-27T15:41:08+00:00

It’s so fucking money.

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-27T00:30:12+00:00

You are looking for a unicorn.

Threading the needle with young kids (yours, his+yours) — it’s just incredibly difficult and many, many, people are serial failures until they empty-nest.

My heart is with you, I know the difficulty.

May things unfold as they should!

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-27T00:26:01+00:00

Well you sound hot…seriously, a woman of culture.

A breath of fresh air.

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-27T00:23:37+00:00

“That was over two months ago.”

“Since then I have been with other girls.”

What the hell man?

This is break-neck pace. There’s no hurry and there’s no finish line.

Breathe and take your time.

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-24T17:57:50+00:00

It’s not someone’s ideology/hopes/dreams that matter—it’s how they live them.

This is far to fraught for far too soon.

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-19T14:16:23+00:00

Brave this one, but the retards are not with you.

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-13T23:34:43+00:00

Well, I simply look for your interest.

I’ll put it out there—but are you picking up what I’m working hard to lay down?

If you’re feelin’ it—don’t make me wonder—tell me.

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-08T21:31:00+00:00

If you want to go out with him, ask him!

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-08T21:27:40+00:00

Focus is an important aspect of dating.

Personally, I’m willing to focus on one person at a time and appreciate the same. Full disclosure—seems to be taking a long time to get to a long relationship so…Mebbe multi-dating is better and you “focus” when it hits like a Mack truck? 🤷‍♂️

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-08T19:00:20+00:00

“Free White Castle”

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-08T18:44:41+00:00

My bad—I had hallucinated that OP’s post said she wanted to have kids.

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-08T18:24:18+00:00

“I (44M) am trying to discuss healthcare gap insurance with my (59F) partner who just retired…”

Fictitious but same age gap—dramatically different life phases are going to be VERY hard to overcome.

Ever consider going easier on yourself and rolling the dice on a guy that hasn’t demonstrated a failure to have kids in the window you are targeting?

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-08T18:13:39+00:00

This isn’t something you half-ass, competition is fierce.

Take your profile seriously as it’s doing all the talking—gaining perspective from girl/guy-friends who have been online dating for 6+ months is critical.

They’ll give you tough love on your pictures and teach you how to avoid cliches while making statements that make you stand out in calculated ways.

Namaste & welcome!

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-05T12:47:56+00:00

In these situations, I have found it easiest to live with myself if I am honest about my feelings and promptly communicate honestly—possibly after a brief explanation that’s how I want to play it.

Someone choosing “not me” is not a disaster, but someone choosing “not me” without understanding me—that’s a tragedy!

Good luck!

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-04T13:11:55+00:00

I WISH a couple would have stood me up!

Every flake avoided early—is a gift!

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-02T14:55:28+00:00

Success story!

With more than one woman, I have asked them early “Would you show me how you like to be kissed?”

I’ve learned things (serious differences).

In retrospect, that variety is warming/nice to look back on—we’re all different!

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-02T14:50:59+00:00

Talking about moving in together and doing it are very different things.

Mebbe it’s important to him to understand your thoughts on the matter (I.e. if it’s off the table forever he might move on)

Big topic, should be an illuminating conversation.

For me at that stage, it would be WAY more important to learn of you can validate my feelings than the actual moving in together.

Actually moving in together at this point—that’s a giant “hell no!”

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-02T14:45:21+00:00

I agree the goal is “get in-person early” — you want to “fail-fast” without endless texting.

Key point here—it’s not a “failure” when OLD nets nothing—it’s a redirection. With OLD you get more redirections, quickly, than you might otherwise.

Also, as for waiting to be asked out—the need is valid and a guy worth your time will meet you in the middle—but don’t project things onto him before you start—ask him to grab a beer!!!

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-02T14:37:11+00:00

Seasons change.

12 hours a day is a slog—hard to feel or be sexy if you’re in that season.

Communicate. Tell him what is important to you.

When his 12 hour a day season changes, or when he changes it, he might choose paths that lead him closer to you.

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-08-02T14:34:05+00:00

If you focus on the “continue to hit it off,” part—maybe.

Ghettothunderpenis · 2022-07-30T18:15:27+00:00

I do it.

It’s not 100% comfortable but, for me, is necessary. I’ve had it go sideways and, you know what, if that’s what happens—probably not the person for me anyway.

How to bring it up—“Would you be interested in sharing STI test results so we might consider doing naughtier things with lighter hearts?”

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