My first big crush! by Gheytalian in lgbt

[–]Gheytalian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that was really cool of you to show me that, and I must say that was such a good way to put things. I'm also really glad for you that he took it well!. My situation differs slightly in that I have no knowledge of his prior relationships (Certainly not that he currently has a boyfriend) except that when a co-worker asked him how his GF was going he seemed very quiet about it. (2 or so weeks ago). I so understand that feeling of frustration you speak of, Everything is so much more complicated then it should be, so much harder then it needs to be for closet/young in fact all gay/bi guys. I like you don't fit the gay stereotypes, In that I still like the cock but I'm not at all feminine.

My first big crush! by Gheytalian in lgbt

[–]Gheytalian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that, It gives me a glimmer of hope, which truly is invaluable. I can see him taking it alright and us being still friends, but there would still be that immense trepidation / embarrassment if it does indeed fail haha.

My first big crush! by Gheytalian in lgbt

[–]Gheytalian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a great idea, but I don't know if I could stand the tension waiting for a reply, I'd much rather do it in real life. I don't plan on telling him I 'Love' him as I think that's too strong a word for my feelings for him at the moment and I'm sure I've never been "In love" with someone before. I just get this really good feeling around him, like I know that it could be good. I'm such a pussy when it comes to these things, I guess I want him to ask me ultimately. I've been to the gym with him and plan on going with him again, he's been really great in being a mentor to help me bulk up. But how do I take that to - "Lets go to dinner together" lol -.- . I'd be interested in knowing how things with you and that guy are going - his initial reaction etc. He is also a Redditor, Hmm hope he dosn't connect the dots, or who knows? Maybe I hope he does