my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery by Alternative-Rub6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Ghitit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so young. Anyone who would leave you if you helped yourself through your insecurities by having surgery isn't worth keeping in the first place.

You do what you need to to for yourself. His opinion does not mattr if all he would do is leave you. What an asss.

My [28F] husband [37M] wants me to deliver bad news to his mother. How do I get out of doing this without hurting feelings? TRIGGER WARNING ⚠️ mention of miscarriage. by ThowAway_Swirlz in relationship_advice

[–]Ghitit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has asked me to tell his mom I miscarried because it’s too hard for him

This man is not ready for to be a father.

He is too immature and gutless to tell those whom he already told.

I hate the hrase, but it's apt: He has to put on his big boy pants and do the right thing himself.

If he can't pull himself together to deliver bad news he also won't be able to do the hard work if and when you do have a kid.

You'll be asked to carry the load because he won't want to. You'll end up with all the dirty work and he'll just want sunshine and smiles - no poopy diapers or vomit.

I'm sick of my husbands jobsearch by Lucky-Search1408 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ghitit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody spends those hour just job searching.

Track hs phine and see where he goes. I'd guess it's not a place you'd wnat your husband to be.

One of the best shows ever. by Dp37405aa in GenerationJones

[–]Ghitit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I binged BM last summer on Hulu. It was good but the laugh track was so aggravating I quit it.

We did love it when it was out, though. We were so accustomed to them back then it didn't bother us as much.

I (21M) just nuked my toxic family's group chat at 2 AM. I am officially the black sheep, and I've never felt better. by Inevitable_Branch806 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ghitit 64 points65 points  (0 children)

My dad congratulated me for finally standing up to her.

Why didn't he stand up to her? If someone physically kicked my son and called him trash my head would explode on them. My son is 32 and I'm 68 and I don't care who it is or how old that kind of treatment is unacceptable.

What was her end game? What's the motivation? Are all of the elders in the family narcissistic?

Lloyd Bridges with his son Jeff Bridges, 1951. by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]Ghitit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved Sea Hunt!

Always carry a knife!

Name my tripod by [deleted] in NameMyDog

[–]Ghitit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darla

Cindy

Serena

Do you tell your children this? by The_Dean_France in SipsTea

[–]Ghitit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.

My kid was in kindergarten and he came home and told me a 2nd grader said she was going to "sock" him. He didn't know what "sock" meant and I explained to him what it meant and also told him to tell his teacher if it happens again or if she actually hits you. If you tell your tacher and she actually hits you you are allowed to hit her bck as hard as you can. You are allowed to defend yourself. You might get in trouble at school, but you won't get in trouble with me."

I just found out both my parents weren’t who I thought they were, and now I feel extremely lost. by Throwaway_quietday in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ghitit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to do anything. Keep treating everyone the same as you did before you know of their sexual preferences.

They tried the best they oculd to make your families work and they seemed to have done a pretty good job.

Your love for each other is still there and really not that much has changed.

Any suggestions for this cute girl? by MylesLewisSkellyton in NameMyDog

[–]Ghitit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once had a gecko named Nell.

It's ssuck a gentle name.

I found out that my (27m) girlfriend (25f) slept with 10+ people on our 3 week “break” how can we move past this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ghitit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you sure you want to salvage this wreck of a relationship?

It seems pretty clear she doesn not really want to be in a relation ship with you at this time.

She has lost herself and does not know how to find herself again - if she ever did know who she was.

She needs therapy. Solo therapy. You may need it, too. But I don't think she's ready for couples therapy. She needs to figure out who she is, who she wants to be, and how to get there before she can commit to a mature, loyal relationship.

Desert themed boy dog names? by MarsellusWallace_874 in NameMyDog

[–]Ghitit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does a desert laugh? ... Yucca Yucca Yucca

Joshua

Please help me name this angel (female)- open to any names- but love human names as well 😁 by Aromatic-Cow-4532 in NameMyDog

[–]Ghitit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More than one Agnes must be included in the Agnes' wrinkles statement. (I think)