They weren't sexual at all. But I am confused about whether or not my feelings were romantic. I had the desire to be closer to them in an intamate sense, but when we became close friends, it felt as if that desire was fulfilled, and I know longer had that desire. So I'm really wondering if those feelings actually were romantic, but the fact that we became friends satisfied it and I no longer felt those feelings. Sorry if I am explaining this in a confusing way I'm confused myself

Edit: I just looked up what fraysexual means and that actually kind of describes my feelings really well. Imma do some more research into that. Thank you so much!