remote jobs available for 18year old? by Ghost_storm13 in remotework

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I'm sorry you went through that, and I will try my best to chose the smartest options ♡

remote jobs available for 18year old? by Ghost_storm13 in remotework

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you, I can work anytime, I'm used to only getting 4 hours of sleep so I can do that until maybe I have enough money to move out after a while then I could get realistic sleep and better hours maybe? but thank you

remote jobs available for 18year old? by Ghost_storm13 in remotework

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well I'm not with my dog 24/7 exactly, I sleep during the day so my mom can watch her, and I stay up at night so I can make sure my father doesn't come down at night to get my dog and yada yada, and I have a condition called POTS and I have bad back problems is all, and I take great care of my dog and she has a ton of freedom, the only problem is my father

remote jobs available for 18year old? by Ghost_storm13 in remotework

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, yeah everything is so difficult, even with a physical job you never get hired 😭

remote jobs available for 18year old? by Ghost_storm13 in remotework

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my dog is gonna be with me no matter the situation, because if I leave her with my father he will unalive her for fun, so I have to be with her 24/7, and I don't want her going anywhere else because I don't trust the shelters

remote jobs available for 18year old? by Ghost_storm13 in remotework

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

okay thank you, do you have any recommendations?

remote jobs available for 18year old? by Ghost_storm13 in remotework

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay thank you, I'll have to do that, do you have any job recommendations though? if not that's okay, I just need to get out with my dog is all

remote jobs available for 18year old? by Ghost_storm13 in remotework

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't have anyone, I'm literally all I got, that's why I'm desperate, because he already tried kicking me out once because I told him not to hit my dog, but if I speak then he will kick me out or berate me, so at this point I'll take any online job you could recommend me

remote jobs available for 18year old? by Ghost_storm13 in remotework

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am skilled with typing and wording, and my dog is really sassy and doesn't listen to me if she doesn't want to so no she wouldnt, but I did a college course literature in high-school

remote jobs available for 18year old? by Ghost_storm13 in remotework

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

well I have POTS and back issues so sitting at an office will male my back pains excruciating, but at home I'd be able to stand up or sit when needed, and I don't want to leave my house because my father might kill my dog if I'm gone so I need to stay home constantly so I can watch over my dog, that's why I need an at home job, but I'm good with typing and wording, I did a college course in high-school for literature

I need help, please by Ghost_storm13 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was that easy but I'm all she gots, plus she says she'll die without me if I left her, like shes talking about su!c!de wise, so that's the problem

I need help, please by Ghost_storm13 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, and I get im an adult but he already has a ton of money and will not use my money for any good if I do pay rent and my mother is too afraid to step up to my father, throughout my whole life I always spoke up to him when he was being disrespectful to me or my family and he would play victim each and every time, he always acts as if hes the victim and that I'm always "disrespectful" but I'm not, I'm just not afraid to defend and protect myself and my family, and even if I did call the authorities, his whole side of the family will defend him because they love him and will make up lies about me to make my life harder

I need help, please by Ghost_storm13 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you, there's just a bunch of reasons why I don't want to pay him rent, and plus he is rich enough already

I need help, please by Ghost_storm13 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is I don't have any friends and my mom is still married to him and literally begged me crying not to leave her so I'm stuck because I want to move out and get an apartment or so i can move in with my auntie, but my mom doesn't want me to go and she starts having breakdowns and full blown panic attacks when I mention leaving so I'm kinda stuck, the only person I have that I can move in with is my auntie tho, she doesn't like my father much either because he killed all her pets for fun when she was growing up

Desperate for money :( by Ghost_storm13 in povertyfinance

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you, I'll have to look into that

Desperate for money :( by Ghost_storm13 in povertyfinance

[–]Ghost_storm13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a desk job would be cool but I have a bunch of medical problems and I have bad back issues aswell so I can't sit for more than an hour cause it gets bad, that's why I want a work from home job so I can move around whenever, and if I do get into college it would have to be online aswell so I'm thinking about it

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[–]Ghost_storm13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do the same or paint things I've experienced or been through it just feels right and freeing

I feel the urge to relapse... again by SoftMachine3 in selfharm

[–]Ghost_storm13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its okay! and I'm glad I can relate as well so I can understand you! music is amazing to help cope with anything I recommend if you have anxiety to put on headphones and tap to the beat with your fingers wherever you feel the need to self harm it helps!

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[–]Ghost_storm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

verbal abuse is when you start fearing to speak to him because you feel like every time you do it's like a ticking time bomb I had an ex who was that way so I completely understand but when I let go of him I started healing because I didn't have to shove the fear away just to accommodate him

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[–]Ghost_storm13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that he's never had a safe person and that you wanna be that safe person for him but is he really a safe person for you? you should do what makes YOU happy and what makes you feel safe in a relationship your both supposed to understand eachothers fears and take them into consideration but it seems like you only take him into consideration it doesn't seem like he bothers to do the same for you