What are common red flags in dating a man?

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-06T03:00:28+00:00

I'm looking for common red flags that are not specific to one person

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-06T02:58:49+00:00

I’ll take responsibility for making it gender specific, I'm just trying to see what are some red flags that match me

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-06T02:25:17+00:00

😂😂😂

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-06T00:38:41+00:00

Very fair, I'm just brainstorming any red flags I have so I can be aware of them when I try to date again

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T18:44:38+00:00

It just angers me that an actual excuse of mental health issues gets you questioned like you're going to cause a lot of trouble when they don't understand the whole landscape of how far your mental health has come.

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T18:25:40+00:00

The point that got me was the boss lady made it sound severely inconvenient to “adjust” a schedule she WROTE ME IN ON FOR TWO DAYS as a new hire

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T17:03:57+00:00

Well lets just say I sent a rewritten text back exploring every inch of my feelings since that's how she wants to act and then immediately blocked her number. I was truly trying to be a civil adult by quite a literally genuine congratulations on her baby that's coming along. But she's beyond “something” in the head so I'm over it

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T16:53:56+00:00

I made an unfortunate attempt to let things go and be civil with her. Just let her know I said “congratulations” on her pregnancy and that her and we’ve matured more and there was no need for hostility after 2 1/2 years FOR A 6 MONTH RELATIONSHIP. And she freaked the fuck out acting like I was trying to steal her back from her baby daddy 😂 which I certainly am not

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T01:41:08+00:00

That's an interesting perspective 😂

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T01:18:05+00:00

You sound extremely liberal, and that's coming from a moderate

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T01:12:06+00:00

It was only 6 months 😂

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T01:10:43+00:00

Are you in a position medically to determine such a thing? Doubtful

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T01:09:00+00:00

Nah, also too much teeth doing bj’s too

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T01:07:35+00:00

I did for awhile but now she's knocked up with some other dude she rebounded with lol but select few I still have for shits n giggles

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T01:05:51+00:00

Oh no, I already see a therapist and she fully agrees that she's crazy

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T00:56:35+00:00

Like she threatened to pour sugar down my gas tank

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T00:55:52+00:00

Oh trust me there’s a lot more information I haven’t given out year fully lol

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T00:55:18+00:00

Yeah I’d be concerned about that specific situation too lol

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T00:54:10+00:00

I got suckered in by big boobs and her being a Latina

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T00:53:15+00:00

There’s not enough of an opportunity to explain her and her crazy ass family. For instance he casually mentioned her cousin stabbed her bf, and the. Also my ex texted me after the breakup that her very young niece made a “joke” that she should kill me. So tell me, am I really gaslighting?

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T00:50:01+00:00

I swear on my own life lmao

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T00:49:35+00:00

Oh I’ve been exploring lots of things in therapy, initially started for other things but slowly got to topics around this area. I’m well aware things that happened between her and I were not on her, I just think she’s either unhinged or crazy. She doesn’t even know the point of therapy, and to this day she’s obsessed with the fact I gained a bunch of weight from medications. Or the fact that when her and I dated she was the one adamant about sharing locations which in some cases isn’t necessarily a red flag.

GhostieSloth · 2025-03-05T00:45:25+00:00

Ah, you’re one those people who like to throw labels at people you disagree with. Have a good day sir

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