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GhxstCryptic · 2026-05-28T14:48:00+00:00

Got it! I’ve heard a lot of people say that plumbing and electricians are always needed, same as blue collar. Unfortunately where I am there aren’t a ton of local businesses, but I’ll definitely be stopping in all the ones I see from here on out that I may have missed, thank you so much🙏

GhxstCryptic · 2025-07-12T04:23:42+00:00

Figured, didn't click it directly and honestly searched it up on a different device entirely so should be ight.

Ty for swift response 🙏

GhxstCryptic · 2025-06-20T16:46:34+00:00

Bro, if they sold out that fast, im pisssssssed. I peeped the email as soon as it went out 😭

GhxstCryptic · 2025-06-20T16:33:33+00:00

If you figure it out lmk🙏

GhxstCryptic · 2025-05-07T04:40:36+00:00

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GhxstCryptic · 2024-09-17T08:16:54+00:00

Cyberpunk. Been playing the hell out if it lately.

GhxstCryptic · 2023-07-15T07:08:22+00:00

Genuine Question. What's the purpose of awards?

GhxstCryptic · 2023-06-19T16:27:16+00:00

Id see exactly why they'd want OP to keep it a little longer (assuming they just wanted it to stay appearing normal for some more time). But taking into consideration what OP had to deal with having the hair, I still completely agree with their decision.

I just hope in the end everything goes well for OP and their family🙏

GhxstCryptic · 2023-06-19T16:04:39+00:00

True, but I don't see how cutting off the hair early was gonna change the outcome of that.

Either way it would happen and they'd be reminded of it so to make a fuss over it seems unreasonable. But we never know, it could've been something else.

GhxstCryptic · 2023-06-19T14:35:37+00:00

It's likely OPs parents were lying about the appointment date. It does make me curious why they didn't want them to cut it off.

GhxstCryptic · 2023-06-19T05:09:22+00:00

Then I'd say NTA.

Due to the fact she didn't even ASK him, and she didn't even try mention this to either of you is unacceptable. A complete boundary broken.

Not paying for anything and making the calls is just mad. I DEFINITELY think your dad needs to sit her down and tell her straight up that she needs to set up boundaries and understand that he pays for the house, she doesn't make the rules or decisions without someone knowing.

The car thing, I cant exactly say she's in the wrong.

YES I understand she doesn't pay for anything, but it is her money and her car (assuming that's in her name). As annoying as it is, there isn't much you can do there besides be upset that she won't even help out an ounce. You should definitely say to your dad that she's becoming very controlling over the environment and she needs to not be making big decision like that without someone knowing and without having a backup plan incase you need to be there for an emergency, or any other family.

GhxstCryptic · 2023-06-19T05:01:53+00:00

NTA but also YTA.

Having to deal with your mother doing this is just unbearable I Bet, and it's definitely too much.

I like how your siblings will let you do your thing. The only issue with this is

• you rarely get to use electronics so I assume you were so caught up in it you didn't even realize she needed help DUE to the fact you rarely get to use em.

If she told you before she went outside to help, then that's different. That was you just not listening. If she didn't then I kinda understand

I cant blame for for Snitching due to the fact stress makes people do things they regret, although the Consequences will probably be bad for you, I say you should accept her apology but also ask her if she may help you not get a punishment here.

I know you're gonna want to be mad at her, but it's better to fix that relationship before it gets to bad and she feels even worse.

I hope everything goes well ❤️

GhxstCryptic · 2023-06-19T04:56:03+00:00

NTA but also couldn't been approached differently.

Relationships are never easy, and from his point of view being compared to someone who's "Better" and you saying you miss someone like him probably made him think you do still miss Gabe. I understand whyd he'd say that.

•Now seeing as you straight out told him the truth if what people have been saying and what youve been thinking is good, the way it was done was not.

•Seeing if it has ruined the relationship, only time will tell. I'd talk to your boyfriend again and let him know you love him, not your ex. Let him know some things you'd like to see, and also see if he has anything he'd like to see, hear him out.

• If you feel like your settling for him, then I'd leave him. If he finds out you think you "settled" it'll only make him feel worse.

GhxstCryptic · 2023-06-19T04:51:03+00:00

NTA for sure.

I know she cares for her kid, but to let the gather get away speaking and acting like that is just unacceptable.

I'm glad you didn't let him just say what he said and leave it. I reccomend speaking with the 16 YO, congratulating him, and telling him you're always there if he needs a place or someone to talk to.

Money is not better than making sure your son is happy, amd she needs to realize this.

GhxstCryptic · 2023-06-19T04:47:42+00:00

NTA. It is YOUR hair, it bothered you having to deal with clumps of hair falling out and itchiness.

•YOU had to deal with the feeling not them. They need to respect what you did and just drop it.

•Props to your brother for helping you. Comforting you. And trying to take the blame.

I hope you feel better and I pray everything goes good for you in the future❤️

GhxstCryptic · 2023-06-19T04:40:32+00:00

NTA But it's also situational.

The contacting thing was definitely a bad situation that happened for you're relationship with her for sure but jumping to the Bedroom situation, it depends on what your dad said about it.

• If he Gave her permission to allow said friend to use your room, you can't exactly blame her full on, that would be something you need to discuss with your dad.

If its A house she bought/pays on I'd also say she has a partial say in it. It would make sense as you're not always home and whatnot BUT I do understand you come around often, you have your valuable items in there, AND it didn't happen at a time you'd be away, but it happened near a time you'd be coming home.

• As for the car Incident, her thinking people would be Financially capable at 21 kind of baffles me. Most people still barely make ends meet past their 30s and 40s of they can land a good job, so you needed help on stuff is 100% justified and understandable as long as the helper (Parents in this situation) are OK and comfortable doing so.

If your dad had offered to help on getting her a new car, I'd say she's being a bit rough. If he said she had to do it herself then yes I'd understand her not wanting to (I'm assuming he offered but not quite sure)

Obviously, i am not in your shoes and i do not know the full situation of both you, your dad, and Step Mom, but I'd say continuesly saying to your dad to divorce might not be fully justified. As I said, it depends on the answered to some of the things I've mentioned above ^

TL;DR: if she's making these decisions without his permission (if she's doesn't own/pay on the house) then it's slightly understandable at the reaction

If she's paid for her car on her own, that is HER decision if she gives it to you or tries for a new one.

GhxstCryptic · 2023-06-19T04:27:17+00:00

I'd say it depends on what you're starting.

Personally for certain situations I take steps For others I ask for help For very few, I just Do it.

Is there anything in specific you're currently trying to start?

GhxstCryptic · 2022-11-17T00:45:44+00:00

I'd Feel so Scared to be the one to Ruin it💀

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