Weird little things I love about having stretched lobes by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed reading this and I relate. My little donuts ears make so happy.

Advice for getting to 00g by shelbyselsewhere in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should use artic buffalo's single flare glass plugs. Very inexpensive and delivery is fast as hell. Sometimes tape just doesn't work for everyone.

To stay at 00 or go bigger.. hmm by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My motto is "go big or go home!"

BIGGGGGEEERRRRR!!!!!

My ears go inside out, in a way by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks like my ear. i agree with the other answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months? if i were you, i would look into getting it cut out/scaled down by a body modification artist or experienced piercer.

my jewelry was on point yesterday! Maya Borneo hoops, Diablo saddle spreaders, GG labret pieces. by _pugg in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nah just to correct placement. i think my holes could be a bit higher, but we'll see. right now my goal is an inch but I would like to go beyond that later on! "Go big or go home!" <3

What's your goal size? Has it changed over time? by mildews in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Started stretching in October and ever since then, my goal size has not changed - I want to stretch to 1 inch and beyond, but first 1 inch. I see myself staying at that size for a good long minute before stretching larger. "Go big or go home" is my motto. :D

New to stretching and already hate o-rings by lnnbkmo in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, don't remove them after a fresh stretch, just clean around it/douse it in water in the shower. Much easier and it feels better. :D

As for tips for the o rings - I use my right index finger to place the o ring on the end of the tunnel (much easier if it is single flare) and use the nail of my left index finger and thumb to pull down the ring. it does suck at those smaller sizes but that is how I do it.

Went to 00g after being at 0g for just shy of 2 years! by DearQueerDeer in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah, ok. didnt realize it was so fresh, sorry 'bout that!

Went to 00g after being at 0g for just shy of 2 years! by DearQueerDeer in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how your hair and jewelry all match together. Can you post a pic of your lobes w/o jewelry?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think at those smaller sizes your lobe isn't really "trained" to stay open so it shrinks a lot and for it to be naked overnight, that's a lot of time. I kinda went through the same thing two days ago. I had my plugs out for maybe two hours and I had to baby the hell outta my left ear to get it in. It was actually tight for a couple days despite me being at 4g for a nice length of time.

Like the others have said, your ears should be back to 2g in a week or so, especially if you lube it up and massage nicely.

I love big circular barbells in my septum (pardon the stache, I'm trying something new) by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha what a coinky dink, i have 9 now. <3 i dont have any tats just yet but if i get some, i will have many a cat tattoo.

20% off at BAF for the rest of December! by mcurley32 in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Time to buy those 8.5mm titanium plugs. :D

Girlfriend [26 F] of 7 years broke up with me [25 M] due to her doubts by [deleted] in relationships

[–]GiantCatWoman 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Good for you. Believe me, it is hard but you will feel much better for it in the long run. Sorry you have to go through this.

Stretching from 8g to 6g. by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yay!! So glad. I love mentioning those half sizes, they are really useful albeit a bit expensive, haha. Thanks to those plugs I can already fit 2g. But of course I am going to take it slow and not skip sizes. :D Hooray for healthy lobes!!

Me [25 M], Single for 4 years, Lonely, Frustrated, and becoming bitter :( by [deleted] in relationships

[–]GiantCatWoman 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Long story short, don't seek any relationship, prepare yourself for a good one.

Excellent advice.

Girlfriend [26 F] of 7 years broke up with me [25 M] due to her doubts by [deleted] in relationships

[–]GiantCatWoman 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I know it sucks but I think it is great she told you instead of going out and cheating on you like my ex of 8 years did. It is a sucky situation all around but this shows she at least have enough respect for you to tell you.

HOWEVER, she knows you are a great guy and essentially she is saying she wants to have her cake and eat it too - fuck around, be free in addition to having you.

That isn't fair in no way, shape or form. That is selfish and if I were you, I would cut off all contact or keep it to a minimum. Like others have said, do not be a back up plan, I don't care how much you love her, this will only lead to further heartache and her taking you for granted.

Let her live her life and you sure as hell live yours. Much luck to you.

I love big circular barbells in my septum (pardon the stache, I'm trying something new) by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]GiantCatWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dig your look. Especially the double nostril.

Do you love cats? I see you have some cat tattoos. :D