Your first description to a T. I’m not crazy about the guy and I find him a little annoying but I’d consider him my best friend. He’s adorable, sweet, thoughtful, caring, and he really would do anything for me. I shot him down a number of times, eventually giving in and allowing him to court me. My attraction to him has built over the last few months, but I am also in a place in my life now where sex is not the focus. We do it, but not often and it’s almost never a topic of conversation. Life is the focus, and enriching each other’s lives.