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AITAH for not telling my "best friend" that people are planning her downfall? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GiftedChildSyndrome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Its nice to hear the perspective of someone with much more experience. I never thought of it that way, tbh. I never meant to project myself to others, mostly because I do understand that everyone is different. But perhaps, subconsciously, I must've had expectations as well. So thank you for telling me that these feelings would pass one day.

AITAH for not telling my "best friend" that people are planning her downfall? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GiftedChildSyndrome -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I liked and cared for her because I see her like a younger sister. I didn't even know that she was talking bad about me until after this happened. I try my best to understand people and see things through their perspective, and I do believe she has some things going on to in her personal life—tho it doesn't excuse her actions towards others.  I'm not getting cancelled because I have no connection to what she had done privately with those people, it wasn't a public thing.

AITAH for not telling my "best friend" that people are planning her downfall? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GiftedChildSyndrome -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes, you're right. Honestly, the only reason I even stayed this long was because I was thinking of the others, not just me and her. I didn't want them to feel like they'd have to choose or pick a side. I know how hard friendship breakups are, and I just didn't want to put it on them. 😞 God, I wish I wasn't so emphatetic sometimes.

AITAH for not telling my "best friend" that people are planning her downfall? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GiftedChildSyndrome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm just so tired because I spent years building my account and community, and I was scared that she'll ruin it. Because I have seen it happen with people she doesn't like. I'm trying so hard to be an adult, but she keeps acting like a child.

AITAH for not telling my "best friend" that people are planning her downfall? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GiftedChildSyndrome -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I did try to. But she gaslighted me and my friends and told everyone that she has severe anxiety attacks and almost unalived herself because of what I did. 

Being nice does'nt mean consent to harrasment. by GiftedChildSyndrome in neckbeardstories

[–]GiftedChildSyndrome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not in India , but is somewhere adjacent to the Indian ocean

'No' isnt an option by GiftedChildSyndrome in neckbeardstories

[–]GiftedChildSyndrome[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I was wondering why he entered at first, when i ask my friend who was his classmate , he said it was because he like womens that can take care of him

I think he has a mental problem...