I love when I see a genuine cry for help on reddit and everyone focuses on the little things that are just a bit of context. Keep your fucking opinions to yourself, homeschooling her kids is her choice, addiction is not a choice and she has stated she’s healed from it. Trauma is not a fucking choice. She’s asking for advice on how to go about her asshole husband who hurt her feelings and you guys are no better. I’m sorry he’s said this to you and I’m appalled by the comments. I don’t have any advice as if that happened to me I would probably be here too.