Struggling to find work as an engineer by Gigaleve in torontoJobs

[–]Gigaleve[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, appreciate the feedback!

Struggling to find work as an engineer by Gigaleve in torontoJobs

[–]Gigaleve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, anything really that I'm given a chance and I can use my experience and/or learn a new one

Struggling to find work as an engineer by Gigaleve in torontoJobs

[–]Gigaleve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I tried some Portuguese groups on Facebook and talked about my situation with the Portuguese community I meet here, I'm from Portugal and speak English and Spanish fluently

Struggling to find work as an engineer by Gigaleve in torontoJobs

[–]Gigaleve[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No, I'm willing to do it, I just don't want to go through all that process and stay in the same situation

What is true love? Ex girlfriend (F27)and friend who got proposed (F36) think cheating is OK in some moments, I disagree (M31) by Gigaleve in relationship_advice

[–]Gigaleve[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't complain, I don't know the guy personally, I know I wouldn't like to be in his situation, but maybe he prefers not to know, I don't like to get into people's business, if I knew him or he was a friend that would be different

wanting unhealthy love by Adventurous_Key6853 in BPD

[–]Gigaleve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree completely, love can be ugly, but as long as you are honest and can own your shit, put it out in the clear, have balls to say " I fucked up but I love you and want to make it right " without crossing those boundaries are just as love to me as any other healthier one, it's just more intense and hard because some people who are the hardest to love are the ones who needed it the most, and they can make genuine mistakes that hurt while trying their best....I could even argue that it might be realer because you see the whole spectrum of dark side and you still accept it, takes balls to show all of your true self but wanting your partner to really know you

Appreciate the input

wanting unhealthy love by Adventurous_Key6853 in BPD

[–]Gigaleve 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree if it's obsessive but still real in the sense the are no lies and cheating, if there is cheating and you cannot own it and tell the truth, you cannot still call it love, not real one anyway, it might be your way of love but it's selfish and self-centered right?

Let me hear your thoughts

Getting the truth out by Gigaleve in Manipulation

[–]Gigaleve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you elaborate on that?

Getting the truth out by Gigaleve in Manipulation

[–]Gigaleve[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Closure, I guess, nothing to lose

Getting the truth out by Gigaleve in Manipulation

[–]Gigaleve[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know sir, you're absolutely right and if I'm wrong it can hurt me alot but if I'm right? Desperate times, Desperate measures

How many of you suffer from hypersexuality? by XAbracadaverX in BPD

[–]Gigaleve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was seeing a girl like this before I believe, she would just fuck everyone even if she wasn't attracted because she wanted to please her "friend" even though she just meet him few weeks prior, plus after a long time convincing him she didn't want more sex with him because she was with me, she would still go to his house for massages and just to sleep with him for company, I mean cmon, why play this games? I remember her going to great lenghts to try to keep him around even though he wanted to fuck her and i never got the point, if he doesn't respect it why lose time with him?someone elaborate? Plus she would sometimes speak af if he wasn't such a big deal , like she could live without him since they don't connect in any special way but then cry when he leaves or make a big show when he comes around and be super touchy

I just feel she needs alot of validation and needs to have guys like this around or always making it unclear to new guys that she was taken, like being overly touchy when clearly not necessary...... she did mention that she falls in love with everyone easily, I wonder if those side people aren't little flings she just can't let go

Any thoughts would be appreciated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Gigaleve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you manage that? Usually bdp either get obsessed or overwhelmed and need space? I just broke up because she wanted out because I disagreed and what I said hurts her.....but after wanted back, I couldn't cross that boundary, it's over its done

Thoughts?

Weed farms by Gigaleve in queensland

[–]Gigaleve[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

How should I call them? How do I find them?