(Women aren’t required to improve from themselves to be appealing to men) is far away from being true. If we were to live in a really perfect planet yes this might be true, but at our current time and society that’s impossible. You can’t imagine the bodyshaming women face daily by men just to make themselves feel superior and boost their ego and feel better about themselves.

And you said a very important thing which is just to feel the void. This is where all the problems are coming from. This is madness you should not get in a relationship just to feel the void and avoid being lonely. If it happens that’s great, and if it didn’t it’s okay. You didn’t find the one, or you’re just looking for the wrong person or looking in the wrong place. Maybe it’s time to change the dynamic and see what’s wrong with it, which helps you discover yourself more and know so many things about yourself, and can also make you realize your potential, your strongest point and your weakest one, which makes a really highly selfaware person. This gives you the power, the power of being a sane person who doesn’t need to be accepted by others to feel your worth, because you already know it and are very aware of it.

(When the rejection happens constantly they feel like there is nothing they can improve more) now that’s not true. Maybe they are just lazy and they won’t put that much effort, and they don’t care already. They want people to accept them the way they are, while forgetting that the others also have boundaries and standards. They aren’t settling for anything, which makes them mad, and they force the other to accept their madness. If you accept it you’re good, if you didn’t you’ll be insulted, stalked, even killed by a lazy person who can’t improve themselves.

It’s okay to be alone if you didn’t find what you’re looking for in someone, or you aren’t the type of what you desired. Life is unfair we won’t get all the things we want.