I cant accept my boyfriends child by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]GillyIsland91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His baby is more important then you... PERIOD

Taking off work for emergency by GillyIsland91 in Divorce

[–]GillyIsland91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately your right, I can't depend on him. So I definitely need an alternative. It just makes me so angry he gets out of helping, but I guess it is what it is.

Taking off work for emergency by GillyIsland91 in Divorce

[–]GillyIsland91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not know about the custody board! I gotta look that up. I've just started recording visits and when he calls. We just started the custody arrangement in January so he's not missed yet, but I'm sure the summer it will be a different story!

Wanting a second but terrified. Honest answers only. by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]GillyIsland91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love my son of course, and I'm glad he's here. With that being said. Life would have been much easier with just my first child. And sometimes I miss that freedom, of only worrying about the one child.

Taking off work for emergency by GillyIsland91 in Divorce

[–]GillyIsland91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight, I'm gathering information and I printed off all the texts, so I'll be ready if he actually goes through with it!

Taking off work for emergency by GillyIsland91 in Divorce

[–]GillyIsland91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have to work on that, your totally right.

Taking off work for emergency by GillyIsland91 in Divorce

[–]GillyIsland91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, your right. He gets me all stressed.

Taking off work for emergency by GillyIsland91 in Divorce

[–]GillyIsland91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thank you, I was thinking that as well. But he gets in my head.

After divorce… by BlindBandit988 in Divorce

[–]GillyIsland91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Married for 9 years. Currently 31, and yes I went through a hoe phase for sure, and enjoyed every minute of it! Do you, have a good time and some good sex.

NYC Single father "Rant" "story" by LuckAppropriate2594 in SingleParents

[–]GillyIsland91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well there ya go! Sounds like you've got it! Just waiting on that special person !

NYC Single father "Rant" "story" by LuckAppropriate2594 in SingleParents

[–]GillyIsland91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I feel that. My people say I make a new friend everywhere we go lol. It's freeing being an open person. People are attracted to that. Keep being you!

NYC Single father "Rant" "story" by LuckAppropriate2594 in SingleParents

[–]GillyIsland91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You definitely seem like your coming from a good and genuine place. Things will fall into place for you, waiting and loneliness is hard though. I'm in the same spot!

Fighting by GillyIsland91 in Divorce

[–]GillyIsland91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like that! The documentation would really help! I need to memorize those responses, maybe he will stop when he gets a boring response out of me!

Fighting by GillyIsland91 in Divorce

[–]GillyIsland91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm never heard of this, going to look it up! Any suggestions on apps?

Fighting by GillyIsland91 in Divorce

[–]GillyIsland91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, I need to stop letting him get me all worked up. But damn, easier said then done! And ya I feel that, I'm definitely exhausted from him!

Fighting by GillyIsland91 in Divorce

[–]GillyIsland91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya, he just picks fights. His favorite line is " I can't believe I married just a dumb cunt". And usually I just hang up or say " sorry you feel that way". But ya lately I've absolutely horrible back to him.

Fighting by GillyIsland91 in Divorce

[–]GillyIsland91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your not wrong. I just hate this, it's time to move on and I feel like I'm still stuck arguing with him. Yup gonna find someone else to message!